15 Tips for a Strong Marriage There are no small things in love!

Surely the proverb “What we have – do not keep, lost – we cry” everyone is familiar from childhood. Parents instill in their children a careful attitude to animals, plants, things. "To people too!" you will be outraged. But if so, why are there so many divorces, broken hearts and crippled lives? There are no small things in love! What seems to one a trifle or a matter of course, for another will be a real gift or, conversely, a cause for tears. How not to cross the thin line of human feelings? What to do if the relationship has reached a dead end or cracks at the seams? How can marriage be preserved? Not everything is as difficult as it seems at first glance. Read these rules and see what you are doing wrong.

1. Never stop caring.

If you have been married for several years, try to strain your memory a little and remember what emotions each of you experienced during the bouquet and candy period, what gifts you gave, what you dreamed about. And even though this time is long past, you are still together, so do not stop surprising each other, courting, showing small signs of attention, saying compliments. Love does not tolerate laziness.

2. Fall in love again and again.

Yeah, you're both different when you got married, and you'll be different in five years. And although you perceive each other differently, try to surprise, inspire and delight again and again. Win the heart of your partner as often as possible, and your love will not cool.

3. Try to see the best.

Everyone has their own shortcomings, but you do not need to take them to heart and especially pay attention to them all the time. Try to focus your attention on what you like most about your soulmate. What a person concentrates on tends to grow. If you’re fixated on mistakes, you’ll see them everywhere, and if you like them, you’ll soon realize you’ve married the most beautiful woman in the world.

4. Don’t try to change your partner.

Your task is to love your companion as he is, without hopes and expectations. If one of you changes and the other remains the same, love the same whether you like it or not.





5. Take responsibility for your emotions.

Your wife doesn't have to make you happy. In the same way, she can't make you unhappy. You are responsible for your own positive attitude. This rule applies to both partners.

6. Don’t blame someone else if you’re upset or angry.

Everything that happens inside you is your emotions and your responsibility. Don’t get angry with someone who loves you. You don't want to be in his place, do you?

7. Don't be afraid to look stupid.

Do not take yourself too seriously, smile and joke more often. And make your other half laugh. Laughter helps to alleviate any situation.

8. You are each other’s stronghold and support

When a woman is upset, hug her and let her know that you are there and are always ready to support her. Female nature is changeable and rapid, emotions, like a storm, intensify, and then subside. And if in this storm you remain steadfast and strong, you will not only ascend in her eyes, but also become a person who can be trusted.
If a man is upset, do not rush to fall on his neck with questions and words of consolation. He will let you know when it is best to leave him alone or, conversely, support him.

9. Feel the importance of your partner

The best way to do this is to make a list of 10 things that will help your partner feel loved, wanted, and meaningful. Ask your partner to do the same. Let’s say right away, you will be very surprised by the result!

10. Be prepared to take sides with each other.

Intimate relationships are not the last place in marriage. Discuss, experiment, fantasize. Learn to trust your body and that of your partner.





11. Grow and develop together.

Malaria is born in a standing pond, and the stormy flow is always fresh and cool. When human muscles stop working, they atrophy. The same thing happens with relationships. Try to find common goals and dreams together, as well as ways to achieve them. It brings even the most diverse people together.

12. Be open-minded.

If you both want your relationship to be complete and harmonious, do not be afraid to trust even what is difficult and scary to say. Discover not only your light, but also your dark sides. Be yourself!

13. Learn to forgive.

Past mistakes, whether your spouse or your spouse, are like a heavy anchor that will keep you from moving forward. You both learn to forgive and find true freedom.





14. Don't get hung up on money.

Treat money like a game and make it a team game. In this case, you will not have to compete with each other and you will both be winners.

15. Always choose love.

After all, it’s the only advice you really need. If love is the guiding principle on which all your decisions are based, then marriage will not only be strong but also lasting. Love always wins!

These tips are relevant not only for those who have long been married, but also for those who are just starting their relationship. Take care of yourself, take care of loved ones, take care of love. Be sure to tell your friends about this article, and let everyone live happily ever after!

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