15 tips for a strong marriage. In love there are no trifles! Bashny.Net

Surely saying, "What we have - do not store, lost - we cry," everyone is familiar from childhood. Parents instill her children respect for animals, plants, things. "To the people too!" - You have rebelled. But if so, why there are so many divorces, broken hearts and crippled destinies? In love there are no trifles! That one seems a mere trifle or granted to another will be a boon or, on the contrary, the reason for slëz. How not to cross the fine line of human emotions? What if relations have stalled or cracking at the seams? How can I save a marriage? Vsë not as difficult as it seems at first glance. Check with these rules and see exactly what you're doing wrong.

1. Never stop to look

If you already have a few years of marriage, try to stretch a little memory and remember what emotions each of you experienced in candy-buketno period, which gave gifts, chëm dreamed about. And let this time long past, you vsë still together, so do not stop to surprise each other, to care, to show small signs of attention, to pay compliments. Love does not tolerate laziness.

2. Fall in love all over again

Yes, you two are not the same as they were when married, and again in five years will be different. And even though you perceive each other differently, try again and again to surprise, inspire and delight. As often as possible to win the hearts of the partner, and your love has cooled.

3. Try to see the best

Everyone has their own flaws, but does not need to take them to heart and even more so constantly pay attention to them. Try to focus on what you like most in your second half. What to chëm people concentrated, tends to rise. If you are obsessed with mistakes, then you will see them everywhere, and if what you like, then you will understand soon that married the most beautiful woman in the world (married for decent of men)!

4. Do not try to change your partner

- Your task is to love his companion as he is, without hopes and expectations. If one of you is changing, and the other remains the same - love vsë not care whether you like it or not.





5. Take responsibility for your emotions

Your spouse is not required to make you happy. Similarly, it can not make you miserable. You yourself are responsible for your positive attitude. This rule applies to both partners.

6. Do not blame others when he is upset or angry

Vsë what is happening inside you - your emotions, and your responsibility. It is not necessary to tear anger at the person who loves you. You do not want to be in his place?

7. Do not be afraid to look stupid

Do not take yourself too seriously, to smile and joke. And makes you laugh a soul mate. Laughter helps mitigate any situation.

8. You - a stronghold and support each other

When a woman is upset, put your arms around her and let her know that you are around and are always ready to support it. Women's nature is changeable and rapid emotions, like a storm, amplified, and then subside. And if this storm you will remain steadfast and strong, not only ascend in her eyes, but you will become the person you can trust.
If a man is upset - do not rush to fall on his neck with questions and words of comfort. He will give you understand when you should leave him alone, or, on the contrary, to support.

9. Feel the importance of partner

The best way to do it - ask a list of 10 things that will help your partner feel loved, cherished, important. The same was asked to do and your partner. Say at once, you will be very surprised by the results!

10. Be willing to accept sexual side of each other

Intimacy in marriage occupy not the last place. Discuss, experiment, fantasize. Learn to completely trust my body and the body of his partner.





11. However, growth and development

In the stagnant pond emerging malaria, and a raging torrent, and always fresh and cool. When human muscles stop working, they atrophy. The same thing happens with the relationship. Try to work together to find common goals and dreams, and how to achieve them. It brings even the most different people.

12. Be open

If you both want your relationship was full and harmonious, do not be afraid to trust even that rumor and say something difficult and scary. Open not only the light, but also the dark side. Be yourself!

13. Learn to forgive

Past mistakes, no matter whose - your or your spouse - like a heavy anchor that will permanently prevent any forward movement. Both learn to forgive and gain real freedom.





14. Do not get hung up on money

Treat money as a game, and make sure that this game was a command. In this case, you do not have to compete with each other and both of you will be the winner.

15. Always choose love

In the end, it's the only advice that you really need. If love - is the guiding principle on which to build any of your decisions, then the marriage is not only strong, but durable. Love always wins!

These tips are relevant not only for those who have been married, but for those who are just beginning their relationship. Take care of yourself, take care of loved ones, take care of love. Be sure to tell your friends about this article and let everyone live happily ever after!

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