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20 things about which you're bound to forget, if you want to be truly happy. True.
We all have one goal in life - to find happiness. The only obstacle to this - we are. Every day we limit ourselves, going to, or without realizing it. There are so many ways to avoid these restrictions. Either you take a life or hiding from it. Stop complicate things and just live. It would be much easier to live, if we have learned to overcome these obstacles. Let's look at what you need to get rid of, to become happier.
1. Approval of the
Who cares what other people think? If you are satisfied with the decision taken by you, it does not concern anyone but you. Think what you could achieve if it did not allow others to decide how you live. Be yourself and do what he considers useful for himself.
2. Anger and irritation
Anger will eat you up inside. Learn to live in peace with those who have hurt you. It is important here is not that you forgive this man. The main thing - to ease the pain that you are full. Remember: the one who annoys you, you have control over.
«Life would be easier if you learn to forget the insults». i>
3. Rejection of your body
You should worry about the opinion of only one person about your appearance - yourself. There is no "right" type of figure. Most importantly, you feel comfortable in your body and you will be healthy. Do not let others tell you is ugly, because if you do consider myself beautiful, then so is.
4. The desire to find the perfect mate
This does not exist, so do not even try to look for. Move on and evolve prevents us from the image of an ideal life partner, who sat down with us in the brain. Find a suitable person to you, the one you love with all your heart, with whom you will be comfortable, and that will take you so / so, you are. The sooner you realize that you will not find a perfect person, the better you will live.
«He is not perfect. And you're not perfect. Both of you will never be perfect. But if he could ever make you smile, make you think at least twice, if he is not alien to anything human, and he forgives mistakes, do not let him take care of it. And he will not let you read the verses and think of you every moment, but he will entrust to you a piece of yourself that you can beat. Do not hurt him, do not try to change it, do not expect the impossible from him. Do not analyze. Smile when you're having fun with him, cry if it angered you, and miss him when he's not there. I love with all your heart. Ideal people do not exist, but there is always someone who is perfect for you! » I> - Bob Marley.
5. Perfect Life
Just as there is no perfect mate does not happen and the most perfect life. Every person - himself a blacksmith of his own happiness, so if you're not willing to work hard, then most likely you will not happy. Made you immediately reflected in the choice of your life. Creating a better world for you depends only on yourself.
6. Being rich
Many people live with the thought that someday will become millionaires. For some, this goal is realistic, but before you reach it will have to work hard. Stop thinking only about money, find a job for the soul and consecrate himself to her.
7. The idea that luck will knock at your door
Nothing ever will fall from the sky. To choby get something, you deserve it. I am grateful for what you have, and Appreciate every moment of his life. Live as the last day and get the most useful experience in any situation.
8. Justification
Do not look for excuses. I want to go to the gym, but you do not have time? Then get up early. Finding excuses, you avoid feelings of guilt that you do not do what he wanted to or had to do. Do you want to get results? Then stop whining and get busy.
9. Thoughts of former / ex
You do not just have left. If you think about the former, it is only in terms of experience. Do not focus on the feelings that no longer exist, they only hinder you to be happy with another man.
10. Stubbornness
I know it is sometimes difficult to admit that you're wrong. Other people have just as much chance of the correct answer, as you, so stop being stubborn and just accept it. The less obstinacy you show, the more you are open to new knowledge. Imagine what would have happened if you had not accepted the draw point of view other than his.
11. Procrastination and procrastination
Stop thinking that tomorrow you will certainly do everything. Live the present and do already, damn it, everything in its time. Use the time in accordance with their capabilities. Do the most important things as quickly as possible. After completing all the work on time, you can escape the stress and feelings, and you will be free time for hobbies.
12. Previous
At least once in life we all hurt the ones we love. The transfer of negative emotions on the future relations will not lead to anything good. No two people are alike, so do not compare this with the former partner. Try to start a new relationship with a clean slate.
13.Negativ
Thoughts may materialize, so watch that what you think. Stop vospriminat life as a glass that is either half full or empty napodovinu. You have much to thank life, you're just never thought about it. For the optimist, nothing is impossible.
14. Condemn others
And why do people always care about what is happening in the lives of others? If we pay as much attention to our own behavior, how we pay the behavior of other people in our lives would be a lot more sense. You have no idea what's going on in another person's life, so you can not condemn his actions.
15. Jealousy
Happiness is not about to have the desired - a desire that you already have. Stop envying others and learn to appreciate what you have. The life of every person is unique, so you surely have something that others do not. Jealousy did not bring nothing but negative feelings.
16. Uncertainty in
Do happy people tend to be very high self-esteem. They are happy to be themselves. These people radiate confidence, proud of her, and all around a positive charge. You have no reason to be insecure. If there are things that you are ashamed, you try to fix them. Only you can change yourself for the better.
17. To depend on others to be happy
The only person on whom you can rely on 100% - is you. Do not make the mistake many people, giving happiness in the wrong hands. The relationship will not be able to fill the void, if you were not able to make yourself happy. You need to first find their happiness before you find someone with whom they can share.
18. Past
Stop living in the past! You can not achieve anything if pogryaznesh in previously committed mistakes. Think of it as a learning experience and move on. You can not come to a happy future, if you will constantly look back. Things happen. Take this and go on mission.
19. The need to control everything
Sometimes you just have to let life take its course. You will not do you a lifetime to get nervous because of the things you can not control. Relax, and let it be what will be. Deal with uncertainty and you will be surprised how much fun will live.
20. Expectations
Managing expectations - the key to happiness. If you learn to get rid of the expectations - I will never be disappointed. Too often we think that others will treat us the same way we treat them. Unfortunately, this does not always happen. Do not expect that any current situation will have a certain outcome. Feel free to go towards a new experience.
Remember the main thing - you yourself create their lives and bear responsibility for it just you. Follow these rules, and life will become much easier. Share these valuable rules with family and friends.
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1. Approval of the
Who cares what other people think? If you are satisfied with the decision taken by you, it does not concern anyone but you. Think what you could achieve if it did not allow others to decide how you live. Be yourself and do what he considers useful for himself.
2. Anger and irritation
Anger will eat you up inside. Learn to live in peace with those who have hurt you. It is important here is not that you forgive this man. The main thing - to ease the pain that you are full. Remember: the one who annoys you, you have control over.
«Life would be easier if you learn to forget the insults». i>
3. Rejection of your body
You should worry about the opinion of only one person about your appearance - yourself. There is no "right" type of figure. Most importantly, you feel comfortable in your body and you will be healthy. Do not let others tell you is ugly, because if you do consider myself beautiful, then so is.
4. The desire to find the perfect mate
This does not exist, so do not even try to look for. Move on and evolve prevents us from the image of an ideal life partner, who sat down with us in the brain. Find a suitable person to you, the one you love with all your heart, with whom you will be comfortable, and that will take you so / so, you are. The sooner you realize that you will not find a perfect person, the better you will live.
«He is not perfect. And you're not perfect. Both of you will never be perfect. But if he could ever make you smile, make you think at least twice, if he is not alien to anything human, and he forgives mistakes, do not let him take care of it. And he will not let you read the verses and think of you every moment, but he will entrust to you a piece of yourself that you can beat. Do not hurt him, do not try to change it, do not expect the impossible from him. Do not analyze. Smile when you're having fun with him, cry if it angered you, and miss him when he's not there. I love with all your heart. Ideal people do not exist, but there is always someone who is perfect for you! » I> - Bob Marley.
5. Perfect Life
Just as there is no perfect mate does not happen and the most perfect life. Every person - himself a blacksmith of his own happiness, so if you're not willing to work hard, then most likely you will not happy. Made you immediately reflected in the choice of your life. Creating a better world for you depends only on yourself.
6. Being rich
Many people live with the thought that someday will become millionaires. For some, this goal is realistic, but before you reach it will have to work hard. Stop thinking only about money, find a job for the soul and consecrate himself to her.
7. The idea that luck will knock at your door
Nothing ever will fall from the sky. To choby get something, you deserve it. I am grateful for what you have, and Appreciate every moment of his life. Live as the last day and get the most useful experience in any situation.
8. Justification
Do not look for excuses. I want to go to the gym, but you do not have time? Then get up early. Finding excuses, you avoid feelings of guilt that you do not do what he wanted to or had to do. Do you want to get results? Then stop whining and get busy.
9. Thoughts of former / ex
You do not just have left. If you think about the former, it is only in terms of experience. Do not focus on the feelings that no longer exist, they only hinder you to be happy with another man.
10. Stubbornness
I know it is sometimes difficult to admit that you're wrong. Other people have just as much chance of the correct answer, as you, so stop being stubborn and just accept it. The less obstinacy you show, the more you are open to new knowledge. Imagine what would have happened if you had not accepted the draw point of view other than his.
11. Procrastination and procrastination
Stop thinking that tomorrow you will certainly do everything. Live the present and do already, damn it, everything in its time. Use the time in accordance with their capabilities. Do the most important things as quickly as possible. After completing all the work on time, you can escape the stress and feelings, and you will be free time for hobbies.
12. Previous
At least once in life we all hurt the ones we love. The transfer of negative emotions on the future relations will not lead to anything good. No two people are alike, so do not compare this with the former partner. Try to start a new relationship with a clean slate.
13.Negativ
Thoughts may materialize, so watch that what you think. Stop vospriminat life as a glass that is either half full or empty napodovinu. You have much to thank life, you're just never thought about it. For the optimist, nothing is impossible.
14. Condemn others
And why do people always care about what is happening in the lives of others? If we pay as much attention to our own behavior, how we pay the behavior of other people in our lives would be a lot more sense. You have no idea what's going on in another person's life, so you can not condemn his actions.
15. Jealousy
Happiness is not about to have the desired - a desire that you already have. Stop envying others and learn to appreciate what you have. The life of every person is unique, so you surely have something that others do not. Jealousy did not bring nothing but negative feelings.
16. Uncertainty in
Do happy people tend to be very high self-esteem. They are happy to be themselves. These people radiate confidence, proud of her, and all around a positive charge. You have no reason to be insecure. If there are things that you are ashamed, you try to fix them. Only you can change yourself for the better.
17. To depend on others to be happy
The only person on whom you can rely on 100% - is you. Do not make the mistake many people, giving happiness in the wrong hands. The relationship will not be able to fill the void, if you were not able to make yourself happy. You need to first find their happiness before you find someone with whom they can share.
18. Past
Stop living in the past! You can not achieve anything if pogryaznesh in previously committed mistakes. Think of it as a learning experience and move on. You can not come to a happy future, if you will constantly look back. Things happen. Take this and go on mission.
19. The need to control everything
Sometimes you just have to let life take its course. You will not do you a lifetime to get nervous because of the things you can not control. Relax, and let it be what will be. Deal with uncertainty and you will be surprised how much fun will live.
20. Expectations
Managing expectations - the key to happiness. If you learn to get rid of the expectations - I will never be disappointed. Too often we think that others will treat us the same way we treat them. Unfortunately, this does not always happen. Do not expect that any current situation will have a certain outcome. Feel free to go towards a new experience.
Remember the main thing - you yourself create their lives and bear responsibility for it just you. Follow these rules, and life will become much easier. Share these valuable rules with family and friends.
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