Hard female conversation of a very experienced woman who necessarily need to know the young girls!
Relationship having a chance to be long-term, you do not need to be complicated to determine. Well, how much time a person is able to make the brain itself and others in a non-stop? Well, six months, a year, in particularly severe cases - a couple of years. And then it all zamuchivaet finally and sorrowful silence in the audience leaves the auditorium, leaving the protagonist alone in sweating on stage under the glow of spotlights.
The so-called complex relationships, all these have come and gone, many hours talking about the high - is, sorry, from a surplus of free time. This is the wrong attitude. Seriously. It's like if you go to the showroom and pick on Bentley, but your means, at best, enough for a down payment on ... as standard. You can come to this salon for years, but all you shining - it is the same ... you say that Bentley - the only thing that is right for you, you proklyuёte skull with all your family and friends, you will make a mournful face and wringing his hands, you ruin your life, you vozvedёte suffering, but you never stop to think that everything that you need - this is a strong, reliable workhorse with working air conditioning, clean interior and correctly selected tires that will take you from point A to point B. < br />
Relationships should be as simple as two cents. It does not matter whether it is the genius physicist or a simple Vasya miller, no matter what his education, how many languages he speaks, how many women he had, and whether he writes poetry, what is important is how you comfortable with him. If it brings you to the depression, if you are not with him less shitty than without it, if you know what you do with it is not lit, if it makes your brain instead of your body ... if he loves all these frazochki "I'm not ready" or "we have to wait," or "I have to think" or "it's so difficult," send him away ... you loved it really, or it was just a whim - you will understand only much later, so you even score nothing to lose.
Love does not indefinable state of love is often mistaken desire, respect, habit, jealousy, the desire to get even, and much more. From the "complicated" relationship you do not win anything but a headache. If you need it, it is a headache, if you live without it can not, find the courage to admit that you do not need this particular man, and that headache you get with him. And learn how to extract the headache of a more productive relationship, just warn np-c-and-L-L-n-o-grams-about a man that on Wednesdays and Saturdays you - uniform bitch, let him prepare in advance.
Again and again: the relationship should be simple. You do with this man give birth to children, farm news, plans to build, go to visit, talk to kinsfolk and generally carry the most that neither is primitive and narrow-minded way of life. And if you think that you will pass this cup - ooooochen you are greatly mistaken.
It's how it happens? At first, we need a tall, handsome, intelligent, rich, romantic man, and only much later, we understand - we all understand - that we need a man who can be relied upon to be next to no time, b ... b, when his peremknulo head correctly. And always. Always, you know? Therefore reliability - very important quality.
He is helping you in the most difficult moments of life, when well, "all", and step right, step left - go nuts. Therefore, the responsibility - is also very important quality.
You will want to share with him the joy and sorrow, victory and defeat, dreams and fears, so empathy - is generally kapets importance.
You will learn it inside and out, you will understand each other perfectly, you eventually pritrёtes each other as honed supermegaekstrastanke gears, you will continue to make trouble and put up because it - all the same you do not, it is the other person, even though he sharpened by you as well as you do for him, so tolerance - without it, well, just did.
And you'll always give each other a part of himself, piece by piece gnawing his bachelor habits, it is now fashionable word compromise, so that flexibility - it is also very, very important.
And you will make important decisions, individually and collectively, the decisions that it is able to change your current way of life, so that without trust - well, just nothing at all.
Think about it, that's when you were twenty - you do about anything without thinking, right? You want him to famously drove to your supertachke, beautifully presented flowers and so kissed on the lips. And that you admired him ... oh but beautiful eyes and in general would be like in the picture. So in fact it's not important once. Spitting, beautiful or not, tall or short, slim or chubby, stuttering or rhetorician, everything you need from him - is the realization that here with this man - into the fire and into the water, and copper pipes, and that when he was there - you very well. And that without it you goraaaaazdo bad than with him.
And I assure you - you will turn twenty years ago, when you continue to be touched by measuring its temperature and helping to write the will, even though it only once sneezed, and when you finally stop conduct intimate conversations "and where we are going" because you have already had to go where you want, that's what love is. Love - it is not pre-calculated. Never.
And here these "complicated" relationship - well, damn, well, go on courses of macrame or something. Or help orphans. Leave your poor brain alone, and without him you worry a mouthful.
© Maroussia [dragetta]