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Why are the former (7 photos)
People meet, people fall in love, get married. And someone sits and draws goose "peinte" with calmness Samurai watching these couples fall apart, and then divide the furniture, the cat and the shelves in the refrigerator.
reasons for separation are different in scale. The leaders, of course, treason. Then there is the boredom and habit. But there are also unique. For example, the husband happened to see his wife in a porno movie. Maybe nothing, and even spicy, here only a year of release the movie was much later than the date of their wedding. Suddenly.
You never know what will be the last drop, and that will serve as a catalyst for the break. Because so interesting to listen to the stories of others. To know where the straw podstelit. Or once again to make sure what we did like.
Ales
"The former left me since said that he felt inferior around me: my apartment is, and he does not have, at the time I greatly increased wages, as it had, on the contrary, has fallen (whereas I was stupid, not to know, that a man can not talk about his salary). And then it infuriated buy third pair of sandals, and he said that we were too different! I remember crying so first, and then realized that he was from a different "class" between us and nothing could be more common ».
Faith
"The reason for our break with the former was his long-term business trip. This separation was argued as: "Do not wait for me, because it makes no sense to wait six months, with whom met a couple of months." As a result, after the trip, he returned the same to me, but burdened flown away on a business trip girl. I went to the pregnant girl ».
Light
"I threw in my life only once, and that - because" my mother said. " I, you know, not out pedigree. He tried to come back in two years, but I had already cooled off. Although the deal is still ».
Marina
"I remember I once threw out the fact that I am 20 years old was still a virgin. I was then a very hurt ».
Anna
"With the young man I met almost four years. Love was held somewhere in the third year, both Beigbeder. There was just a habit. Man ceased to grow spiritually and financially, did not want to, did not work on him. And I did not want to stand on the same stage, studied, worked, and it bothered me: will not start up, afraid that I would leave him. And so it happened.
After parting "went down": thrown from work, started drinking, personal life did not develop, all of it ran down. As it now - do not know, but I hope that he still had the strength to turn from the curve of the road ».
Anastasia
"What broke? Tired of being close to him, "a man in a skirt." Nothing he could do - either to call or to negotiate. In the store with a list of the products you send - and somehow managed to not bring. And he is beautiful and theatrical sick ... I'm used to that from childhood he mom in the ass muzzle. But I am not my mother. And my patience is not rubber. And nerves of steel. Now let the other hear about existential crises and cognitive dissonance. Honestly, I have after immunity refined intellectual who read a lot, watch a lot of art-house cinema and go to some shows and concerts are closed, but the question "why are you still without a driver's license?" Answer something like "ecology, the ozone hole, the future of bicycles, blah blah blah." Ah, somehow unmanly is all ».
Mila
"I am with my first lover broke up two years later relationship - due to its excessive masculinity and attempts to arrange domostroj. All my friends thought I was a fat raged since he was a servant, a personal chef and he did not force me to be a housewife. But he considered himself primarily in our relationship and all the important decisions were made without consulting with me. For example, can fully plan our vacation during my vacation, buy tickets, book a hotel room without even asking where I wanted to go, and if I wanted to go somewhere at all. He gave me the car, even though I was planning to take a loan and buy it yourself. Constantly buying me clothes, shoes, bags, and even accessories, and because of this I felt a little child, to which all parents are buying. And all this he considered pleasant surprises and did not understand why I am angry. As a result, he began to turn into a caring, but authoritative Daddy, whose word - an indisputable law, and I took my papers and went away, leaving him all his expensive gifts. He ran a long time for me, but I realized after that relationship, I want equality. And I must say that my current husband, I'm pretty happy ».
Olga
"I Gave up because he is lazy and disrespectful to his parents, who his 25-year-old, fully contained: fed, watered, gave money to rest and dates. If anything, that for me in a cafe or a movie he did not pay, and money spent on all there strings, guitars and new jeans ».
Svetlana
"Dispersed, because he did not want to draw a relationship. Even after the child was born. Twice I moved with him to other cities, when it is raised on the job. As a result, I lost friends, a job, a normal life. Morally it is me in these changes can not be supported. For him the "number one" - is the work, and I really like something. As a result, it infuriated me, and we have moved with the child in one of the cities where we lived before, and where I like most. Now we type "guest marriage": he comes to us for the weekend.
I do not need anyone, I dissolved in a child. And he, I think, will soon snuck in his home town, where he works, since he is handsome, promising and very good earning. I am sure that very soon it priberut their hands, but I do not care. Above all, he will never throw the baby out of life (not one of those it), as well - so be happy. I myself have, apparently, life does not arrange: I'm 34, I'm not very pretty and has rapidly getting old. I do not care that I had excess weight and generally how I looked - have other priorities. Mentally I had already let go, it's a matter of time. Most importantly, he's a good dad, and they always will, I am absolutely convinced ».
Elena
"I always told the man that I am not ambitious enough, I do not work there, not so fond of. As a result, he is now a woman, who is not working and not studying, and most importantly her passion - a run for it ».
Anna
"But my ex stopped in development. Like a fool in 20 years (I cheated on age), so in 26 and remained the same. Remove all the same apartment, he sits in the same position, earns the same number, the game is in the same toys on the computer, only buy new socks and more beer drinkers ... disgusting and ridiculous. He says: "What you do not like? So already it is direct bad? "In general, tired. I collect things ».
But for some reason in my life left by the former you? Or with any argument - from you? Share sore (and successfully otbolevshim) in the comments!
reasons for separation are different in scale. The leaders, of course, treason. Then there is the boredom and habit. But there are also unique. For example, the husband happened to see his wife in a porno movie. Maybe nothing, and even spicy, here only a year of release the movie was much later than the date of their wedding. Suddenly.
You never know what will be the last drop, and that will serve as a catalyst for the break. Because so interesting to listen to the stories of others. To know where the straw podstelit. Or once again to make sure what we did like.
Ales
"The former left me since said that he felt inferior around me: my apartment is, and he does not have, at the time I greatly increased wages, as it had, on the contrary, has fallen (whereas I was stupid, not to know, that a man can not talk about his salary). And then it infuriated buy third pair of sandals, and he said that we were too different! I remember crying so first, and then realized that he was from a different "class" between us and nothing could be more common ».
Faith
"The reason for our break with the former was his long-term business trip. This separation was argued as: "Do not wait for me, because it makes no sense to wait six months, with whom met a couple of months." As a result, after the trip, he returned the same to me, but burdened flown away on a business trip girl. I went to the pregnant girl ».
Light
"I threw in my life only once, and that - because" my mother said. " I, you know, not out pedigree. He tried to come back in two years, but I had already cooled off. Although the deal is still ».
Marina
"I remember I once threw out the fact that I am 20 years old was still a virgin. I was then a very hurt ».
Anna
"With the young man I met almost four years. Love was held somewhere in the third year, both Beigbeder. There was just a habit. Man ceased to grow spiritually and financially, did not want to, did not work on him. And I did not want to stand on the same stage, studied, worked, and it bothered me: will not start up, afraid that I would leave him. And so it happened.
After parting "went down": thrown from work, started drinking, personal life did not develop, all of it ran down. As it now - do not know, but I hope that he still had the strength to turn from the curve of the road ».
Anastasia
"What broke? Tired of being close to him, "a man in a skirt." Nothing he could do - either to call or to negotiate. In the store with a list of the products you send - and somehow managed to not bring. And he is beautiful and theatrical sick ... I'm used to that from childhood he mom in the ass muzzle. But I am not my mother. And my patience is not rubber. And nerves of steel. Now let the other hear about existential crises and cognitive dissonance. Honestly, I have after immunity refined intellectual who read a lot, watch a lot of art-house cinema and go to some shows and concerts are closed, but the question "why are you still without a driver's license?" Answer something like "ecology, the ozone hole, the future of bicycles, blah blah blah." Ah, somehow unmanly is all ».
Mila
"I am with my first lover broke up two years later relationship - due to its excessive masculinity and attempts to arrange domostroj. All my friends thought I was a fat raged since he was a servant, a personal chef and he did not force me to be a housewife. But he considered himself primarily in our relationship and all the important decisions were made without consulting with me. For example, can fully plan our vacation during my vacation, buy tickets, book a hotel room without even asking where I wanted to go, and if I wanted to go somewhere at all. He gave me the car, even though I was planning to take a loan and buy it yourself. Constantly buying me clothes, shoes, bags, and even accessories, and because of this I felt a little child, to which all parents are buying. And all this he considered pleasant surprises and did not understand why I am angry. As a result, he began to turn into a caring, but authoritative Daddy, whose word - an indisputable law, and I took my papers and went away, leaving him all his expensive gifts. He ran a long time for me, but I realized after that relationship, I want equality. And I must say that my current husband, I'm pretty happy ».
Olga
"I Gave up because he is lazy and disrespectful to his parents, who his 25-year-old, fully contained: fed, watered, gave money to rest and dates. If anything, that for me in a cafe or a movie he did not pay, and money spent on all there strings, guitars and new jeans ».
Svetlana
"Dispersed, because he did not want to draw a relationship. Even after the child was born. Twice I moved with him to other cities, when it is raised on the job. As a result, I lost friends, a job, a normal life. Morally it is me in these changes can not be supported. For him the "number one" - is the work, and I really like something. As a result, it infuriated me, and we have moved with the child in one of the cities where we lived before, and where I like most. Now we type "guest marriage": he comes to us for the weekend.
I do not need anyone, I dissolved in a child. And he, I think, will soon snuck in his home town, where he works, since he is handsome, promising and very good earning. I am sure that very soon it priberut their hands, but I do not care. Above all, he will never throw the baby out of life (not one of those it), as well - so be happy. I myself have, apparently, life does not arrange: I'm 34, I'm not very pretty and has rapidly getting old. I do not care that I had excess weight and generally how I looked - have other priorities. Mentally I had already let go, it's a matter of time. Most importantly, he's a good dad, and they always will, I am absolutely convinced ».
Elena
"I always told the man that I am not ambitious enough, I do not work there, not so fond of. As a result, he is now a woman, who is not working and not studying, and most importantly her passion - a run for it ».
Anna
"But my ex stopped in development. Like a fool in 20 years (I cheated on age), so in 26 and remained the same. Remove all the same apartment, he sits in the same position, earns the same number, the game is in the same toys on the computer, only buy new socks and more beer drinkers ... disgusting and ridiculous. He says: "What you do not like? So already it is direct bad? "In general, tired. I collect things ».
But for some reason in my life left by the former you? Or with any argument - from you? Share sore (and successfully otbolevshim) in the comments!