About the love of near and far Bashny.Net

I do not understand what people are investing in property to fall in love (if remove ce & sualny subtext).
Love above all. Without exception. In addition enemies. And those have to love - but not communicating closely.
The desire to be together, possess, control or pretended to obey - it is not love, but a narcotic frenzy.
If a person annoys you, do not actively acting against you - it's your problem.
Apology personal love, originated in Europe sometime after the middle ages, to make a normal envy, jealousy, hatred, murder. It is clear - from the sublime love.
She had corrupted all religions, calling personal love, an echo of animal passion - and love of neighbor or God - in the same word. (Although - by the way - in Ukrainian Kohannya / love - very different things)
Went 400 years.
Butterflies in the stomach. Heart ekaet. Goosebumps ... People! It's time to stop confused passion and love!
How long?
 - Sobsno question - is there a society where apologizirovana impersonal love? And above personal laugh?