The daughter came to his father and saw at his house a strange woman who claimed that just looking after roses.

Even in seemingly happy families, sometimes there are stories that do not fit into your head. It seems like a lifetime together, and then at some point someone decides to do something stupid. This is how couples who have lived together for decades break up. It’s hard to understand why people cheat. Perhaps you need to pay attention to each case separately. For example, in today’s history everything is quite clear, although it is no less insulting.



Why do people cheat? I had to read the opinion of psychologists on this. There is nothing wrong with noticing other people besides your primary partner. Moreover, any instant fascination is also not harmful. It is bad when everything ends in lies, betrayals or excuses, they say everyone lives like this.



There are seven main reasons for infidelity in relationships. They often try to increase their self-esteem. Also, the reason for betrayal can be problems in relationships. But instead of talking and trying to solve these problems, they are looking for positive emotions on the side.



A very interesting case is avoidance. There are people who find it easier to build a few superficial relationships than to dive into one deep. Another cause of betrayal can be unmet needs. Here you need to be able to control yourself, but not everyone succeeds.



A little less often there are stories associated with chronic cheating. In this case, loyalty is simply not part of a person’s value system. In addition, very interesting cases are associated with compensation for fear of treason. I mean, you're not here yet, so I'm getting ahead of myself. The seventh reason is the lack of chemistry. That is, when mutual attraction to each other disappears.

The main character of this story tells that once came to visit his father. And suddenly in the yard, next to the roses of his mother saw a strange woman. She was clearly disturbed by the meeting, but her father tried to explain the situation. He introduced his daughter to Galina, who allegedly kindly agreed to look after her mother's roses while she was gone.



Her mother had been working in Canada for two years. She asked her daughter to look after her father and the roses. Oh, what roses she had: many varieties, different colors, and the smell can not tell which. Looks like my daughter didn't look a bit.



The woman says that she used to come to her father regularly: cooked for him, cleaned the apartment. But at some point I noticed that he was doing well himself. I started visiting my dad less often. And also the 6th month of pregnancy makes itself felt. It is often impossible to ride to the village, although not so far.



A neighbor in a rural shop said that while her mother was making money, her father had found another one who was “looking after roses.” It seems that Galina helped Dad clean the house and cook food.

What do we do next? The fact is that in the family of our heroine, the mother always earned more money. Yes, my father built the house with his own hands, but mostly with his wife's money. Then she was offered to go to Canada for a few years to earn a lot of money. Should have been enough before retirement. But my father couldn’t wait...



The wife of the heroine advised her not to interfere in the relationship of her parents. First, there is no evidence except indirect. Second, telling your mom about everything is essentially putting an end to your parents' marriage. Who wants them to break up? Maybe it's better to wait, let them figure it out for themselves.

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I wonder what you think about that? What would you do if you were a heroine? His opinion was certainly shared in the comments. Should you tell everything you know in such cases, or should you let your parents solve their own problems?