I can’t stand my ex-boyfriend and hate their child, I don’t know what to do.

Decent. man You will always try to maintain a normal relationship with your past family. It is not their fault that their parents failed. It's just the circumstances. Well, it is better not to anger the ex-wife once again, so that she does not tell her son or daughter anything bad about her father.



It turns out that any new chosen one of this man will be forced to tolerate the presence of his ex-wife. The presence of their children together. This is the last thing you need to build a new, strong relationship. How do you behave in such a situation that you do not look like a bad person and at the same time minimize the presence of another woman in your family? The question isn't that simple.

A man with ex and children hates his ex-wife. And I hate their daughter, too. For two years now, I've had to see their arrogant faces and listen to all the nonsense they're trying to pass off as something smart and important. When will this end?

My man used to be married. But he took this step not out of great love, but because of the pregnancy of his ex. Acted like a gentleman, didn't you girls? No way. You had to think with your head first. After all, marriage is a very important decision, with all the accompanying additions after divorce. Alimony, meetings, gifts and so on.



I call Nicholas my man, although I consider him my boyfriend. Judge for yourself, he's only 27 years old. And it's already well-built: great work, love of sports, intelligence, a great sense of humor. How could you lose someone like him? All because of stupidity and narcissism.

It is annoying that Kolya is indulging in everything with her ex. Now he and his daughter live in another city, so he has to go to them once a month and a half. To see my daughter. I saw her a couple of times. She's a normal kid, but she doesn't like her dad. And she looks at me with such a wolf's eye that I'm even afraid to imagine what could grow out of her. The child is a little more than five years old, and it seems that she is already working in production, on a rotational basis. Only the cigarette butt is missing.

The funny thing is, Christina cheated on Kole. Can you imagine? Small, full. Totally unintelligible in fashion. He puts on some shapeless jacket and stands, chewing gum. The hair is dirty, it's terrible. How did he fall for that?



At first, I just didn’t want to get into their “difficult relationship.” You might think I was just jealous, but I wasn’t. You would have seen it and understood it. But that doesn't give her the right to take time away from me to be with Kolya. I also don’t want her to play the child’s card. Like, a daughter needs a dad, or maybe let's think about our past. No, that's not gonna happen.

So I told Nicholas that I would not tolerate him and Christina meeting too often. And it's not a far-fetched whim. It's a principle. At first he refused, tried to argue. But a couple of days later he agreed and said there would be no more calls. Just messaging. I said yes.

And everything was fine until one day this shameless girl came to our town. Of course, on business. She had no one to leave her daughter with. It was about six in the evening, just time to rest after work. Koley and I agreed to spend time together on TV. We sat down on the couch, everything was great. And there's the bell.



An unpleasant story of begging, pleading, sobbing. Can you imagine a more pathetic act? Half an hour later, she came to us, handed over her child like luggage at the airport. She took a taxi somewhere fast. What a cheap pretense. As a result, we spent that evening playing mother-daughter with a strange girl for me.

You wouldn't be wrong to assume that the girl wasn't nice to me for a second. But I cooked dinner and, in general, tried my best to squeeze out the cordiality. And that's how I feel. Late at night, this cuckoo came to Kola again and took her daughter again. My boyfriend even suggested they stay. But I guess Christina read it in my eyes, so she just missed his invitation. And she left.

It’s been a while since then, but I still have memories. And every time I start to assess the progress in my relationship with Nicholas. He's not. I'm not stupid and I know he's just afraid to legitimize our love. He is afraid of marriage because he has had a negative experience. Christine reminds him of this every time.



Peels Man with ex and children But what's my fault here? It's not my fault they met earlier! Because of a man I hate, I am moving away from my true love. There's nothing I can do about it. What do you do in this situation?

A friend advised me to go to a fortune teller and ask her to make a conspiracy or a spell. Although it is practiced in situations where there is love, and his ex Kolya definitely does not love. Maybe we should try turning him away from his daughter. I want him to see her less often, because she, in fact, is the thread that connects them with Christine.

It would be nice to have a paternity test. Not much. But Kohli and his daughter, unfortunately, have a lot in common in appearance. And their eyes are the same. I would have been doing this a long time ago.



The Peels aren't his family, are they? I'm his family now. I feel it, I know it. But we are seriously hampered by external circumstances that do not want to see us together. And in my understanding, it is very sad and unfair. We all want ordinary human happiness. I've already found mine. And I certainly won't give it to anyone. I will fight to the end and whatever happens. Any other option just won't suit me.