Every day my mother begs me to continue caring for my sister, but I don't want to do that.

Inna was born into an average family. The parents had no special income, but the family lived quite well. The girl was pampered and cherished until the second child appeared in the family. The mother went on maternity leave, and all responsibility His financial well-being rested on his father’s shoulders.



How this difficult story ended, read further in the article.

The father of the family rotated as he could, disappeared constantly at work, but coped with his task. Their family lived a little apart, and they were not very close to each other. They didn’t need it because they didn’t need anything.

Natasha was eight years younger than Inna, and all the attention of her parents turned to her little sister. Every day my daughter said, ‘You’re older, you have to give in!’ She's still small, be smart! And she was “older” and “smarter” until she got married at twenty and left home. The girl had everything in order: husband, children, home - to live and rejoice!



Only the parents did not smell well-being: the youngest child contacted bad company, the girl began to try the ban, in other words, got away from her hands. Whether she was too spoiled and allowed everything, or not paid proper attention. No one will say what was the main reason for this behavior of Natasha.

Father and mother were on edge. Nerves, sleepless nights, showdowns and scandals, which gave no effect, caused moral and physical exhaustion. Perhaps it would have continued for a long time, but the girl once ate something so different that she was in intensive care.



The droppers and the professionalism of the doctors did their job - Natasha survived. But her legs failed - she now moves in a wheelchair.

The tragedy affected everyone in different ways: the youngest daughter seemed to settle down, the father closed and went into himself, and the mother, who was unbalanced before, even more began to break out on others. Inna tried to help her parents as much as she could, but she did not intend to sacrifice her children and family.

Natasha started working on the Internet. The girl herself is not stupid, so soon she began to earn well. One problem is that you can find everything online, and she found what she wanted. She thought she had nothing to lose. All sorts of shit were delivered to her straight home.



After all the nightmares, the health of the parents was greatly affected. They, realizing their fragility, began to try to establish warmer relations with relatives in order to enlist their support, because Inna will remain with her disabled sister alone. But relatives have become too distant for all this time, everyone has his own life, his own family. Who wants other people's problems?

The parents begged the eldest daughter to take care of Natasha after their passing so that she would take responsibility for her sister. But Inna understood that her own children would suffer from such care: they would be given less attention and love. She is not ready to accept a person with an addiction into her home!



Recently, my mother’s heart failed. Father and Natasha were alone. Parental requests have become more insistent, and Inna reacts to them more painfully, realizing the inevitability of a very important decision that can radically change her life and negatively affect her family.

Inna’s life-wisdom and editorial advice asks for advice on how to proceed. I would have used to, with my teenage maximalism that won't get out of my head, screaming, "What are you?" You can't leave your sister in trouble! But now I understand that because of one reckless person will suffer four, and two of them are children.



And I'm confused because I don't know what Inne's answer is. Can you give her some advice?