In our country, a 33-year-old girl is already considered an old woman, says the mother. Bashny.Net

Women 30 and older find it difficult to talk about their personal problems. Relatives incessantly ask about the groom, wedding, future children. What if the relationship has reached a dead end? Is the time for marriage coming to an end?



Peels: You don't tell your heart, "Yes, you're separated." No, it's okay. Thank you, but it's none of your business.” What matters is what happens inside the person. His feelings, emotions and experiences.

First of all, there comes a shock of course. Even if the initiator was the girl herself, such a sudden change of scenery, habits and confidence in the surrounding reality can lead to real despair.



Peels What should be done to correct this situation? Of course, take time to experience and understand what happened. It may be worth reaching out to friends and family for support and advice. If they're really close, they won't even think about criticizing you. They won't be asked to make concessions.



But don’t forget that people around you don’t always understand your pain and problems. Therefore, referral to a professional psychologistwhich will help to cope with emotional discomfort. The expert will give good advice, because he is an uninterested person.

If the desire to find a new love is still there, then you should start by exploring your own interests and hobbies. This will help you be surrounded by people who share your passion for life.



For example, it can be sports, attending various courses, walking in the park and so on. Not to be confused with nightclubs! Now is not the best time to succumb to temptation. Dating a girl can occur at any time, it is important to be in the place where there is an opportunity to meet new interesting and necessary people.

How to find a new love Do not forget about modern technology. The same dating sites that have already turned into phone apps. They are comfortable, concise and do not require much effort in mastering. But you should not dive directly into this world of dating. Not all interlocutors, with whom it is pleasant to communicate virtually, turn out to be such in real life.

Some girls start rummaging through the phone book, trying to find the familiar names of old admirers. This is not always the right decision. First of all, there’s always a reason why these numbers are left behind.

But in a stressful situation, you want to forget about it, turn it into something that will improve over time. No, men in their 30s are already ingrained in their habits. Changing them is not just difficult, it is almost impossible.



Secondly, the admirers themselves will easily perceive an unexpected call as a manifestation of your weakness. And, even unconsciously, try to take advantage of this weakness. And this is the last thing a girl who has not yet departed from a past relationship needs. As a result, you will get more headaches and shed tears. Let the past stay in the past.

The most important thing is not to lose faith in your ability to love. Both myself and the world. Perhaps, after a break with a loved one, you need to rethink your desires and values. Only then do you know what you need from your new partner. It is important not to compromise and not to seek a replacement for past relationships. Open up to new opportunities and new people.



Do not forget that love is the work on the relationship of two people. And even when you meet someone you feel good with, you may not like them in their little things. His personal hobbies, his views on things. Try to find out his picture of the worldview as quickly as possible. This way you can immediately see if your new person is right for you and if you can be with him for a long time.

Also, you need to understand that without a loved one, your life does not end. It doesn't even stop. Focus your attention on something else. Fortunately, you can always follow the path of self-development, focus on your career. Do not focus only on personal life, it will not lead to anything good. The main thing is to be happy. And already this factor will bring you new opportunities and new pleasant acquaintances.



It can be difficult to find new love after a breakup, but it’s important to remember that it’s possible. Do not lose faith in yourself and your feelings. Every day can bring a new love. Literally every event. It’s life, and it’s filled with wonders and amazing moments. You just have to look in the right direction!