I came back from Germany a couple of months ago, but the children don’t come and hardly call.

It is so common in our world that expectations for mothers are often very high. Even from their own children. There is little demand from my father, but my mother owes everything. This is what happened to the heroine of our history. The children were so caught up in the expectations of their mother that they forgot that she was also a human being. Resentment against their mother prevents them from seeing other aspects of life.



Editorial "Site" She shares her story with you and asks for advice.

My story can hardly be called unique. She married early and had two children. My husband lived well, even well. But when he turned 45, everything changed. He found a younger lady and decided to leave the family. But empty-handed, so he decided to sue me for part of the house. Which he did.

The children were already adults. They did not judge their father, because he is an adult and has the right to happiness. We sold our house together, for my part of the money I bought myself a small apartment.



The kids decided I had to go to work. There is nothing to do here, so I can help them. Then I thought it was a good option. I was able to settle in Germany. She worked hard and sent money and food to children. Over the years, I was able to buy the children an apartment. My son and daughter often called me and sent me pictures of their grandchildren.



But a couple of months ago, I realized that I could no longer work. Health began to fail very much. I can't work like I used to. I thought I'd come home to my little apartment and hang around.



I came back from Germany a few months ago. But the kids don't come in and hardly call me. It turns out that they were offended by the fact that I decided not to go to work anymore. Over the years, they've gotten used to me providing them to everyone. Now they don't want to live any other way.



I'm bitter at the thought. I tried to buy them apartments. But they resent me. But my dad's great. He didn't give them anything, he just took a piece of the house. But he's good and his mother is bad. He could have chosen to live for himself, and I probably didn't. Want to know what I did wrong?



The opinion of the editorial board of Resentment on my mother is a common thing. It is a pity that sometimes it does not allow you to see the whole situation. The children could support the mother and help her. But they turned their backs on the woman who put her health to ensure they had a comfortable life. It is sad that her children grew up so selfish and petty. We don't think it's women's fault. People are just different. What do you think of that?