Grandmother asked never to punish children, she was happy with bread, sugar, hot water

Promotion and punishment of children The problem is complex and not always straightforward. Parents need not only to teach children the mind, but also to constantly learn with them. To know this world is very interesting, and the children enthusiastically rush towards adventure. But family is sometimes too strict.



The story of Veronica confirms the fact that mothers do not always need to be too strict with their child. Her son Dima was 5 years old, but He had enough energy. All 10. Veronica had to wash dirty clothes, lubricate damaged knees, apologize to neighbors for boyish tricks.

The kid seemed to be doing nothing wrong. Well, the ball flew several times into the flowerbed of Baba Vali, so what? She still planted her more to look like. To show off to the other old ladies from the entrance. But now my mother will reprimand Dima. And not just now.



Veronica's strange moment raised a son alone. The husband left the family when the boy was not even two years old. More specifically, Nick was chased away by an unfaithful husband. And to complete the picture effectively threw his things from the balcony. Since you got a mistress, get ready for a theatrical performance for all the neighbors. Parents on both sides helped financially, because the father-in-law and mother-in-law expressed a desire to communicate with their grandson in the future.

For a young woman, the divorce was a big blow, even though she tried to hold. Combining work, raising a child and household chores was very difficult. Nick felt that she lacked strength and patience. And then she made her first mistake. She fell for her son. I screamed at the baby because he was crying and could not calm down on his own.



Veronica herself did not notice that she was doing something wrong. The cry became her constant companion and an important element in the upbringing of her son. It seemed to her that so she could keep Dima in the hedgehog mittens. "I don't beat him," the woman mused. Until one day she gave free rein to words right on the playground. It got too much attention.



Some moms looked suspiciously at Veronica when they heard her scream and Dima cry. Then an elderly woman approached the mother and son and spoke softly, “Would you walk with me, child?” Nick looked frightened at the stranger, but saw no other way out. She took Dima by the hand and went after Grandma.

“I do not judge you, my granddaughter, but I cannot look at the weeping boy. It's a shame you're blaming him for not doing anything wrong. A wonderful, active boy. I had a daughter, too. And grandson. But 3 years ago, a car accident took them away. Now there's no one here. At least let it go. If you want, you can bring him to my piano lessons. I will teach such a beautiful craftsmanship, said an unfamiliar grandmother.



Bright encouragement and punishment of children 5 years have passed since then. But Veronica, it seems, forever remembered the wise words of grandmother Zhenya. “Do not punish the child. “Never,” said an elderly woman with pain. There was so much sadness and sadness in her voice for her grandson that it broke the ice in Nicky's heart. “I can’t even imagine what I would do in such a situation,” the woman mused. And Grandma Eugene was very kind and caring. She really taught Dima to play the piano. I kept saying, “We’re living a wonderful life.” May our children and grandchildren never be disturbed by such difficult times as we have gone through.”



A year ago, Eugene’s grandmother passed away. And for Dima and for Veronica it was a big blow. Their relatives did not share such close contact with an unfamiliar woman. But for the mother and son, some important part of the heart left along with grandmother Zhenya. It was thanks to her that Nick realised how often she misguided. And it's changed so much now.