The story of insolent relatives who came to our house, criticized us and took away a jar of sauerkraut.

Sometimes family members are worse than a natural disaster. Unfortunately, not all people have a sense of tact and adhere to banal rules of decency. As well as the relatives of the heroine of today’s history. The insolence of the guests impressed her so much that she could not find the right words.



Editorial "Site" sharing her story with you. I hope you have some advice for her.

My husband and I have been married for 12 years. And I still love it. He is a wonderful and caring man with whom I am extremely lucky. He has only one flaw: his relatives. Namely his dear brother.

He already has his own family: a wife and a child. They're certainly as good as us. We're raising two kids, making a good living. We try to save money so we can buy something better for us and our children. We work hard for that. As far as we know, the brother of Valera's husband also receives a good salary. But that doesn't stop him from coming home like he's at work.



And a couple of days ago, he called his husband again and warned him that he and his wife would come to visit us tonight. I had no doubt they would come begging for money again. That's what happened. Valera's wife is no better than him. So insolent and shameless. From the doorstep, I noticed my new boots and began to tell me that it was not wise to spend money on shoes, because I have a past couple quite nothing.



It made me angry. My husband noticed that I was starting to boil, so he immediately asked why my brother had come. What do you think? Right, they need the money again. He began to tell some fairy tales that he had business there, partners, we need to shut down, in two weeks there will be money. Overall, nothing new. Alena, my brother’s wife, went uninvited to the kitchen, looking at what I had.



And she said, "Oh, daughter-in-law, do you already have sour cabbage?" I'll take a jar with me. And wrap me another jar of your pickles. They have done well this year.” I've lost my speech from such insolence. I am not sorry, I always gladly treat guests with my twists. But to come and ask so brazenly. Is that normal at all?



I silently dialed her a can of cabbage, got her some cucumbers. She gladly took them. But then I heard that my husband would not lend them money. She clutched her lips and began to grumble again that there was nothing to buy boots with the last money. I didn't care about her grumbling as long as I got out of my house. But the husband suddenly boiled and told them never to come again for money, since they do not know how to communicate in a human way. He threw them out the door.

Of course, I did not want to spoil relations with relatives like this. But maybe my husband did the right thing by putting them in their place. They're going to get on their heads and hang up their legs. You can't do that either. What to do with such relatives?



The opinion of the editorial office of the Heroine of our history of law, you should not quarrel with your family. But you can't let people use your kindness with such undisguised arrogance. Her husband did the right thing to put them in their place. Helping relatives is good and important, but only until they start crossing the line. What do you think about that?