I was going to take my lying mother-in-law to me, but the time is hard, I changed my mind.

We all know what it is. family difficulties And how difficult they are sometimes. Tatiana faced real family problems when her mother-in-law fell ill. She knew that sooner or later she would have to look after her husband’s mother. But things started moving too fast. Will the heroine cope with everything, read further in the article.



About 5 years ago, my mother-in-law became seriously ill. She was living alone at the time. But the situation got worse every day. Soon my husband’s sister moved in. All this time Lyuba lived with her mother, took care of her. My husband and I helped more financially.

But things have changed. First, the mother-in-law is only getting worse. It is constantly lying down, so it needs capital care. Secondly, Luba recently called me and told me that she was going to go abroad.



The fact is that she has a daughter with children there. She called Love to her completely. Times are such that it is not safe to live here. Of course, my husband's sister agreed. She had long thought about moving. When if not now? Especially since she has not seen her grandchildren for so long, she does not participate in their lives.

I understand Luba. I would have done the same thing in her place. But what do we do? I immediately thought that my mother-in-law could be moved to our apartment. I'll take care of where I go. But then we started talking about it with my husband and daughter. And not everyone liked this arrangement.

What to do with a sick mother-in-law We live in a trench, so there should be enough space for everyone with a head. But my teenage daughter doesn't want her grandmother to live with us. She doesn’t like the smell of old in the apartment. She is also not ready to help with her care.



I am sad to hear this from my child. After all, I raised my daughter a kind and sympathetic girl. But on the other hand, I understand her. When they began to think about what room was best for Grandma, problems arose.

I asked my husband to move into the living room and his mother to stay with us. My husband didn't like the idea. And if the mother-in-law lives in the living room, which, by the way, is also a passing room, this, you see, will interfere with the daughter. She will be embarrassed to invite friends to visit her. How awful!



It is difficult for me to solve this problem without any help from my family. My husband doesn’t care about his mother. She hasn’t spoken to her grandmother for a long time because of her health. Plus, I started thinking about what our lives would be like if my mother-in-law moved in.

Family difficulties are one thing. But the tense situation in the country, when you do not know what tomorrow will turn out, is different. I’m scared and I don’t know what will happen next. And if there's an old man sitting around my neck, I'll go crazy.



I decided to talk to my husband's sister. I'll tell you how it is. I can't take my mother-in-law, even if you crack! We need to find another way to solve this problem. I'm thinking about asking Luba to hire a nurse. We'll pay in half. What the hell? I am willing to take most of the costs if I have to.

But living with my mother-in-law under one roof in today’s realities is unacceptable for me. May Elena Vladimirovna forgive me!

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Is it worth helping relatives when the future is foggy, and confidence in the future can only dream? This is a difficult question, because we are talking about the fact that Tatiana one way or another will have to sacrifice something for the sake of her mother-in-law. A woman is not ready to make a big sacrifice, and that is her choice. It's stupid to judge her.



But at the same time, the heroine offers alternative solutions to the problem. And that deserves respect! What would you do in Tatiana’s place?