My wife and I have kids, but there is no way back. Bashny.Net

Can a good, loving father regret becoming a dad? You've probably heard of a diagnosis of postpartum depression. However, this term is used when it comes to new mothers. Men are almost never mentioned in this context. And in vain, because they too can face a lot of problems, trying on a new social role.



Today's edition. "Site" The story of a man who was disappointed in fatherhood. And at the end of the article, we will share tips on how to fix this.

A good loving father, Arthur, married a woman he thought was perfect. And their relationship was just like that, too. Loved each other souls did not want and after six months of daily meetings decided to get married.

A year later, Arthur’s wife announced that she was ready to become a mother. The man was stunned by this news, but supported Masha’s idea. He was 30 at the time and thought it was the perfect age to have a baby.



Only when Masha gave birth, everything went wrong. Caring for a newborn baby was not easy for spouses. Everything was new to them. Because of the child, they often quarreled, personal life faded into the background.

After 2 years of such a joint existence, Arthur and Masha decided that their second child would save their marriage. A daughter was born. Except it didn't get any better. Mary was a good mother, she took into account all the mistakes of the past. But her husband doesn’t seem to understand what a good, loving father should do.

One day, Arthur and Mary got into a big fight. So seriously that in a fit of anger, the man said he regretted having children. He admitted he felt much happier when they weren't there. Although at the same time, he loves his son and daughter and is ready to do anything to make everything good for them.



Mary took this confession as a betrayal. In fact, she had no better idea than to tell her children. Just imagine how an immature mind could perceive such information!

Now Arthur doesn’t know what to do. He wants to build relationships with his wife and children. But he doesn't give up his words either. Paternity is very difficult for him. What about now?

The life wisdom and advice of the editorial office of the Hero of this story was in a difficult position. However, a way out can be found from any situation. Arthur did the right thing when he confessed to his wife. However, he did it in a rather harsh form, which caused an even greater quarrel.



A man needs to talk calmly with his wife again. Explain to her that he really loves his children. It's just that he's having a hard time. It will not be superfluous to remember the pleasant moments spent with the whole family.

The problem may not be with the children. Arthur doesn’t feel happy at all. Maybe he doesn't like his job. And it actually has a big impact on your life satisfaction. This point is worth analyzing.



To get out of this situation, Arthur will need the support of his wife. Why not try to bring back a little romance? For example, agree to go on dates twice a month. And leave children for this time to parents or other relatives. In addition, you can use the services of a nanny.

Arthur also needs time for himself. Immerse yourself in some hobby or leave for a day outside the city to be alone. This helps to unload the head and get rid of bad thoughts.



What would you advise the hero of this story? Have you ever faced such problems?