If a man does not have a relationship, then there is always one reason, we explain in simple words. Bashny.Net

More and more adults are choosing loneliness. They choose because, according to psychologists, they are so comfortable. The rest of these reasons are just a cover. In fact, if a person sincerely wants to start a family, he will look for ways to solve the problem. If he doesn’t want to, no one will force him. So why are men single?

In psychotherapy sessions, single men give a list of reasons why they cannot find a mate. It's always about appearance or character, sometimes habits or failing to provide a potential family. Taken together, these are the tip of the iceberg.



Irresponsibility Reluctance to take responsibility for the well-being of the family and their children makes men miss being alone. For a bachelor, it seems acceptable to burn through life in nightclubs and meet a new woman every night. In the morning, a single man wakes up alone and dreams of breakfast.

Many people think that a wife is a way to nowhere. The wife will forbid to communicate with friends, will be jealous and demand that on holidays he goes to her parents. This is how his married friends describe the marriage of a bachelor, and then a lonely life seems to him paradise.



Everyone falls in love for the first time. Often a man, having met his first love, wants to live with her for the rest of his life. And when a few years later he decides to propose, build a house for them and hope for family happiness, the girl is suddenly not ready for such a serious step. Then a man turns from a romantic to a cynic, and never trusts women.

He can meet, communicate, make friends with women, give them expensive gifts. But you won’t seriously think about marriage. It can last for years. Because once a person has experienced betrayal, it will be difficult for them to trust anyone again.



How much you need to earn, how old to marry and what woman to call a wife, often imposes society. On social media, we all see how happy other people are. Men with high self-esteem often make a list of their ideal companion. Among themselves, bachelors even evaluate girlfriends. Instead of meeting his own requirements, the man begins to complain about the commercialism and cruelty of modern girls. The result is loneliness.



Being married is expensive. Being a dad is even more expensive. In a world where prices are reaching clouds every day, the average man does not try to start a relationship because he fears that he will not be able to provide for his wife and child. Children, indeed, will have to spend money, and the prospect of spending money on another person, even his own son or daughter for the next 18 years, does not smile at the middle-aged man. Especially if this person is currently in financial trouble.



In the person of his wife, a man finds a friend, adviser and mistress. When a man lives with his mother, no woman can have an affair with him. Because mom knows best who her son needs, mom always advises on how to do the right thing. Mom is a friend and counselor, and women who meet a man are left to be mistresses.



As long as a man lives with his mother, he cannot build a healthy relationship with a woman. This is the reason psychologist Pavel Domrachev considers the only cause of loneliness. In order to understand what kind of woman he needs, you need to move away from his mother, and then the man will understand that there is emptiness inside him. There will be a place for a woman who will become his friend. Adviser and passionate mistress.

You can understand yourself with the help of a specialist. You can not restrain emotions, otherwise it will affect mental and physical health, as well as communication with others. To find a life partner, do not look for it on dating sites. It seems that it is more convenient to find a person of interest. But only when you realize what you want from life and feel comfortable with yourself, only then will you be ready for a serious relationship. Why are men single? Because they're so comfortable. The girl can be met playing sports, reading books in the library, walking in the park. The main thing is to start with taking care of yourself.