Why men do not hold on to good women and leave them without regret

It's sad to see another marriage fall apart, which from the outside seemed almost flawless. It is not surprising that many people are interested in why this happens, and why couples fall apart in which a man and a woman seem to be perfect for each other.

Today's edition. "Site" She will share her thoughts with a reader who has always wondered why men leave good women, but are willing to stay with women who are not loved. And why? boring Are you less likely to have a happy and lasting marriage?

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One of my good friends very pragmatic approached the choice of the second half. He was far from the idea that at some point he would meet a girl he would love and be ready to live with for the rest of his life. Not at all, his approach was completely different, writes Ksenia.



“Every woman who appeared on the horizon was simply analyzed from every angle. He wondered if she would be a good wife or not. In order to do this, I have collected a lot of criteria that the potential spouse had to meet.”

“I did not know all the parameters, but some of my acquaintance did not hide at all. So his party was obliged to have good manners and a sense of humor, be able to cook deliciously, read modern literature and be aware of film novelties. The absence of children, bad habits and hereditary diseases was also a prerequisite.”



“I was rather skeptical of such searches. I thought he'd never get married, and he'd spend his whole life looking. But my friend surprised me. He made his choice and got his perfect wife. She worked, kept the house clean, cooked deliciously, and spent her leisure with a book or watching a good movie.”

“Everything seemed perfect, but my friend soon began to feel that things were going wrong. He realized that he did not want to live his whole life with this lady, that he did not want children from her. He looked around more and more, hoping to see one that would make his heart beat faster. The boring woman who did everything right and waited for him at home made him sad.”



“Next to her was bleak: no scandals, no jealousy. And yet he did not part with her, because he knew that such a woman would instantly line up a queue of applicants. So they're still together, still planning kids, still pretending to be terribly happy together. But are they really happy? I seriously doubt it, Xenia muses.



Once the writer Tatiana Vitalievna Ustinova interestingly spoke about such relationships. She noticed that her friend, talking about his wife, always said only what she did not do. Does not drink, does not argue, is not jealous, does not argue.

When asked what he was doing and what he liked to do, he was confused. Maybe she likes modern dance? Or lives on travel? Or does he like to grow flowers? What is she passionate about?

My husband didn't have a response. It turns out that during the years of living together he never found out. Or his wife had no passion for anything.

They say that there are many good people, but there are few really interesting people. Therefore, a boring woman and a boring man (no matter how good and reliable they may be) often find themselves with nothing. It is enough to see someone more interesting on the horizon.







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