She collected huge packages of food and dragged her to her daughter in the hope of making her happy, but heard only reproaches and irritation. Bashny.Net

Irina Alekseevna went around the shops in the New Year holidays in particular zeal. After all, she bought food not only for herself, but also for her daughter and son-in-law. However, Irina Alekseevna did not have time to warn the children about her arrival. Before she remembered to call, she already had 2 packages in her hands.



Peels Stores on New Year's Eve Family ties The woman could not do anything to herself. She wanted to help the children, even though she had already given them a lot: an apartment, money, and other help when moving. Irina Alekseevna herself moved to her mother’s apartment. She kept in touch with her daughter on a regular basis, often with food or small gifts.



Not like her matchmaker, who could hardly match her. Unlike Irina Alekseevna, she did not really try to help her son. Moreover, she had the audacity to complain that Irina Alekseevna did not want to make repairs. Even if she had money, Irina Alekseevna believed that everyone should invest in this event. However, the matchmaker did not consider himself obliged to equip the housing of his son.



Peels Since then, they have taken turns visiting children. Irina Alekseevna always warned about her visits, while the matchmaker could just appear on the doorstep. Irina Alekseevna considered this the height of impudence, but nothing can be done.

So they lived: each family in a separate apartment. The New Year holidays were getting closer, and now Irina Alekseevna, loaded with packages, was climbing the stairs to her apartment. The daughter met her, with a restrained appearance took packages and invited her to the table. I've already had matchmaker tea.



As it turned out, Irina Alekseevna found them discussing the New Year's menu. Among the invited matchmaker with a matchmaker, their second son with his wife and younger daughter. Irina Alekseevna was not on the guest list. The daughter refused to say anything to her mother. She pretended that there was nothing in it. Well, they will celebrate the New Year in this company, not a tragedy. And Irina Alekseevna felt offended. After all, the New Year will be celebrated in her apartment and without her. How so? Why did she deserve such an attitude?



Peels Life Wisdom: What Does This Story Teach Us? An alien soul is dark. Unfortunately, it is not always possible to recognize the real attitude of people towards you. Moreover, it is impossible to immediately understand the reason for this attitude. Neither could Irina Alekseevna, who for the sake of the well-being of children bypassed grocery stores during the New Year holidays, and in response there was only a dry “thank you” and no real gratitude.



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But, on the other hand, Irina Alekseevna could not bring her daughter to talk. But it is thanks to him, perhaps, it would become clear that there is no reason for offense at all. Therefore, before being offended, you should talk. And if there is no such possibility, then put yourself in the place of a person and try to understand him.