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How to communicate with teenagers
Most often, problems with the former family appear when you decide to start a new one. There is a third person between a man and a woman. No, the reason is not cheating, working late or alcoholism. children.
Editorial "Site" She shares with you a very dramatic story of a woman whose happy family life is threatened because the first wife does not leave her ex-husband alone. This case is curious because our heroine obsessive ex-wife pushed her children on summer vacation.
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Life in our house went awry after my husband's children from our first marriage settled in. His. ex-wife Victoria brought two teenagers into our apartment all summer and told her father to prepare them for school. She provided him with a shopping list and went to her place, they say, she wants peace and she needs to work. She doesn't think she's upset us, that her ex-husband has a different life now! And what the summer will be like, she doesn't care either.
The eldest son is 15 years old and the girl is 12. In May, he and his mother went to sea. A woman refuses to return alimony for three months of her life stolen from us. Said it was partial compensation for the May trip with the children.
I tolerate the children of my husband from a previous marriage, but there is no close connection between us. My husband is decent, loves them, often visits and provides any help. But Victoria always turned the children against me, calling me the culprit in breaking up with her husband. It does not take into account that Grigory and I started dating two years after their divorce.
Vicki has her own version of events. She did everything in a way that suits her: she made herself a victim and muddyed me for more than two years. It was rumored that I was the most lost woman in our town. This lady was hoping that Grisha would leave me and come back to her.
As it turned out, the reason for their divorce was Vic herself. It happened 7 years ago. During renovations in their apartment, Grisha suffered a serious injury and was treated in hospital for a long time. He literally had to learn to walk again. Fortunately, Grishin’s parents and sister were nearby, and they put him on his feet. Meanwhile, the wife began to openly twist romances with other men.
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When her husband returned home on crutches, Victoria said she did not want to live with the disabled man and kicked him back to his parents. Grisha has long but successfully rehabilitated after illness. By then, neighbors said, his wife was already living with another man.
The most disgusting thing is that it happened in front of the children: their uncle Dima lives, Uncle Vova, Uncle Yura... Grisha had no choice but to file for divorce and leave all of Vika’s property and apartment.
I knew exactly what Victoria thought about me and Grisha. He even thought he would see his children often. I tried to ignore my partner’s bad past. They lived with him for a year in civil relations and registered their marriage. We settled in my two-bedroom apartment, building our own house. My son is two years old and I am on maternity leave.
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And then the snow fell on their heads! Children who hate me and my child! A year ago, they openly stated, This child is not our brother! Let him die! And these kids have been living with me for almost two months.
Why didn't Vika send the children to her parents or her ex-husband's parents? Because Gregory's mother and father are busy at work and can't take these children with them. In addition, his sister gave birth and lives there with a small child.
Victoria's father recently had a stroke, he needs peace, and teenagers need an eye and an eye. Valentina Vitalyevna, Victoria’s mother, impressed me with her attitude. She thinks I knew who I was for and should take the Grishin children. That Victoria can't handle them herself, and teenagers need a father's upbringing.
DepositPhotos So instead of their mother, I should handle it. But this is a nightmare, not life... I'm nothing to them. While their father is at work, the children are completely out of control, doing what they want. My child is openly and not offended, but pretends that he is not. The girl turns on music loudly while my son sleeps. The guy defiantly swears at me, and his father lies that it did not happen.
Grishina’s daughter uses my cosmetics without asking, appropriated expensive perfume, steals my jewelry and brags about them to her friends. And the boy is quietly pulling money out of my purse, daily and little by little, but without being noticeable. They tell my father I'm lying and I want to fight them.
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At the same time, I clean after them, wash them, make breakfast, lunches and dinners. Grisha can't leave her job and give her children time. It's all over me, there's no power. Morally it is very difficult for me, I no longer know how to proceed. Sometimes I want to throw them all out of the house with my father. But Grisha. goodmanThis is his ex-wife, an immoral, selfish and brazen scoundrel! She ruined her family, lost her husband, and now she can't do without him! ?
The editorial board is important to understand that children An integral part of a man’s life. Of course, if a constructive conversation is not possible, then the help of an intermediary - a family psychologist - is necessary. During counseling, the true causes of hostility between the husband’s children and his new woman may emerge.
Do you think that's okay? Should a woman tolerate other people’s children in her apartment? What should she do in order to husband Have you begun to show respect and trust in your first marriage? Is it possible to build a happy family with a divorced man? We await your comments.
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Editorial "Site" She shares with you a very dramatic story of a woman whose happy family life is threatened because the first wife does not leave her ex-husband alone. This case is curious because our heroine obsessive ex-wife pushed her children on summer vacation.
DepositPhotos
Life in our house went awry after my husband's children from our first marriage settled in. His. ex-wife Victoria brought two teenagers into our apartment all summer and told her father to prepare them for school. She provided him with a shopping list and went to her place, they say, she wants peace and she needs to work. She doesn't think she's upset us, that her ex-husband has a different life now! And what the summer will be like, she doesn't care either.
The eldest son is 15 years old and the girl is 12. In May, he and his mother went to sea. A woman refuses to return alimony for three months of her life stolen from us. Said it was partial compensation for the May trip with the children.
I tolerate the children of my husband from a previous marriage, but there is no close connection between us. My husband is decent, loves them, often visits and provides any help. But Victoria always turned the children against me, calling me the culprit in breaking up with her husband. It does not take into account that Grigory and I started dating two years after their divorce.
Vicki has her own version of events. She did everything in a way that suits her: she made herself a victim and muddyed me for more than two years. It was rumored that I was the most lost woman in our town. This lady was hoping that Grisha would leave me and come back to her.
As it turned out, the reason for their divorce was Vic herself. It happened 7 years ago. During renovations in their apartment, Grisha suffered a serious injury and was treated in hospital for a long time. He literally had to learn to walk again. Fortunately, Grishin’s parents and sister were nearby, and they put him on his feet. Meanwhile, the wife began to openly twist romances with other men.
DepositPhotos
When her husband returned home on crutches, Victoria said she did not want to live with the disabled man and kicked him back to his parents. Grisha has long but successfully rehabilitated after illness. By then, neighbors said, his wife was already living with another man.
The most disgusting thing is that it happened in front of the children: their uncle Dima lives, Uncle Vova, Uncle Yura... Grisha had no choice but to file for divorce and leave all of Vika’s property and apartment.
I knew exactly what Victoria thought about me and Grisha. He even thought he would see his children often. I tried to ignore my partner’s bad past. They lived with him for a year in civil relations and registered their marriage. We settled in my two-bedroom apartment, building our own house. My son is two years old and I am on maternity leave.
DepositPhotos
And then the snow fell on their heads! Children who hate me and my child! A year ago, they openly stated, This child is not our brother! Let him die! And these kids have been living with me for almost two months.
Why didn't Vika send the children to her parents or her ex-husband's parents? Because Gregory's mother and father are busy at work and can't take these children with them. In addition, his sister gave birth and lives there with a small child.
Victoria's father recently had a stroke, he needs peace, and teenagers need an eye and an eye. Valentina Vitalyevna, Victoria’s mother, impressed me with her attitude. She thinks I knew who I was for and should take the Grishin children. That Victoria can't handle them herself, and teenagers need a father's upbringing.
DepositPhotos So instead of their mother, I should handle it. But this is a nightmare, not life... I'm nothing to them. While their father is at work, the children are completely out of control, doing what they want. My child is openly and not offended, but pretends that he is not. The girl turns on music loudly while my son sleeps. The guy defiantly swears at me, and his father lies that it did not happen.
Grishina’s daughter uses my cosmetics without asking, appropriated expensive perfume, steals my jewelry and brags about them to her friends. And the boy is quietly pulling money out of my purse, daily and little by little, but without being noticeable. They tell my father I'm lying and I want to fight them.
DepositPhotos
At the same time, I clean after them, wash them, make breakfast, lunches and dinners. Grisha can't leave her job and give her children time. It's all over me, there's no power. Morally it is very difficult for me, I no longer know how to proceed. Sometimes I want to throw them all out of the house with my father. But Grisha. goodmanThis is his ex-wife, an immoral, selfish and brazen scoundrel! She ruined her family, lost her husband, and now she can't do without him! ?
The editorial board is important to understand that children An integral part of a man’s life. Of course, if a constructive conversation is not possible, then the help of an intermediary - a family psychologist - is necessary. During counseling, the true causes of hostility between the husband’s children and his new woman may emerge.
Do you think that's okay? Should a woman tolerate other people’s children in her apartment? What should she do in order to husband Have you begun to show respect and trust in your first marriage? Is it possible to build a happy family with a divorced man? We await your comments.
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