Which country is best to live in

In search of a better life, people go to other countries, regardless of age. Over the past 25 years, many have gone to work or stayed abroad. Girls hope to find a rich foreign husband, and men - a decent salary. However, it is not so good where we are not. Expectations often do not coincide with reality, because real life is very different from what we see in travel or on television.



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Recently edited "Site" I heard the story of a woman who returned home after a year in Italy. She left not just to work, but to get a local education and stay on permanent residence. We will tell you what made the girl return to her home country.

How beautiful European countries look when you look at the architecture, the calm pace of life, smiling people and wages in a pleasant currency. But for some reason, many of our people cannot live happily there and very often return to their hometowns. One girl wrote on her blog: I wanted to move to Italy, go to a local institute and become a full-fledged citizen.



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But after a while, I realized there were a few things I couldn’t live with. Of course, all of them are not so critical, but for me personally were the key to the decision to go home. It is important to be happy.”



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Only within the country do you begin to notice all the shortcomings and realize that the situation is the same everywhere, only the attitude of the population towards it is different. We will tell you what confused the girl and why she changed her mind. live in Italy.

1. Approach to addressing issues
   Italy is a developed country and certainly keeps pace with technological progress. But everything here needs to be handled personally. They are not used to clarify or explain anything by phone or email. Even to find out about the vacancy, you need to personally come to the company. If in the north of the country, for example, in Milan, it is possible to conduct some negotiations remotely, then in the south it is almost impossible.
   
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   If you want to know something or get the necessary help, come in person and ask. You can spend half a day bypassing the right authorities, and in the end you will have to go through another day because you were misdirected. In the post-Soviet countries, too, not everything is always explained, but the attitude to time is more respectful. In Italy, no one is in a hurry, so it is quite difficult to integrate into such an environment.
   
   And, of course, bureaucracy and nepotism, which also take place in this country. Here is a very strong family relationship, so much is decided through the sister of the wife of the father of the matchmaker.
   
   
   
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2. Men.
   Many Russian women associate Italian men with passion, romance, generosity and, of course, beauty. But alas, it's actually not so fabulous. In Italy, it is not customary to marry quickly, as in Russia. Couples can date for 7-10 years, but at the same time live separately and strictly divide the bill in a restaurant. Their men love children and their fathers are really beautiful. But as long as they can, they cherish their freedom and enjoy it.
   
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3. Bureaucracy
   Italy, being a European country, has a higher level of bureaucracy than Russia or any other post-Soviet country. The law is circumvented in all possible and impossible ways, and the police would rather accuse the emigrant than their citizen, even if he was wrong. Also a huge role is played by the language barrier, which brings its nuances. At least we understand.
   
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4. Unemployment
   Surprisingly, Italy has a fairly high unemployment rate. In resort towns and large cities in the north, there is still some income and hope for career growth. But in general, it is difficult to find a good job, even if you have the right education and experience. Visitors are often arranged where the locals do not want to go: work on plantations, housekeepers, care for the elderly.
   
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The truth is that it is good where we are not. Each country has its own problems and nuances that are understandable to the local resident. They just know how to solve this or that issue in their country, and we in ours. You can live well everywhere if you work on it. After all, people often flee to another country not because it is too bad at home, they flee from their personal problems. Sometimes it is easier to start from scratch than to fix what is.

We also talked about the beauty of Italian life.

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