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What should be prepared for the mother of every boy
Almost every woman has to experience the happiness of motherhood - to become a mother to a little screaming man, to bring him into this world. But over time, the helpless child will grow into a handsome (or beautiful) and leave his father’s home in search of his life path, whether his parents want it or not.
And today's edition. "Site" I'll tell you what it's like to be the mother of an only son. It is both happiness and great responsibility, pride and many trials. Is it true that only children grow up fast?
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Even before birth, you choose his first overalls, thinking about what color your handsome will fit more to the face. In the evenings, you go through these things, imagining how you will squeeze and kiss him.
It is through a sea of waiting that he is born. You can't be happy, cuddle. He grows rapidly, learns to be capricious, crawl, stand. Here. son Already.
You sew him costumes of bunnies and daring cowboys, take him to kindergarten and comfort him when he is upset. You put iodine on scratched knees, and you sit by the crib at night when he's sick. And also fairy tales in the evening, kisses goodbye, endless “and you will buy me...” and other joys of motherhood.
And now he's a schoolboy. Your day starts with folding your briefcase, and ends with nightly sitting at textbooks as you try to help with your homework. And also calls from the teacher with a request to do something “after all, your Seryozha in the class beats everyone and does not allow passage.”
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And you explain what's right and what's wrong. You teach to be brave and decent, courageous and honest. You blush on everyone. parenthoodForgive constantly missing diaries and notebooks, rejoice in sports success and listen to the indignation of the neighbor like “your son is to blame, he was the first to climb.”
He grows out of the things you choose. But the older you get, the less you know about his life, the less he tells you. Sometimes he's gone all night, and you worry about him not knowing if he's okay.
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You want to believe that this neighbor's Katka is nothing more than a youthful hobby, because she's not your son's mate. And then some Tanya enters the house, then Sveta, then another Katya. You don't try to remember their names anymore.
And then you notice that his classmate Anya feels at home. She looks in your fridge like she does, tinkering around the stove. It makes you angry, but you don't want to spoil the relationship, and you keep quiet.
Later, this same Anya says that you chose an old-fashioned shirt for Seryozh and he will not wear this. And you don't cook very well. And do not buy meat at all, because they decided to go on a diet together.
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So your boy says he doesn't want to live with you anymore, he and Anya love each other, they're serious, and they move in. And so he eats her borscht, goes to her mom's for the weekend, puts on her chosen shirts.
Now he calls only on big holidays, and comes to visit even less often. They already choose the menu for the wedding and paint the family budget. Then everything is like everyone else: wedding, children, worries.
One day you’ll go through his things: clothes, toys, a broken PlayStation, photos. Here in one of the pictures smiles your toothless six-year-old Seryozha, for whom you were the most important person. And today you are, at best, the No. 2 woman in his life. And you just have to accept that. But weren’t you someone else’s “Ana” who took her son from her mother?
One wise proverb says, “Your child is your guest.” Feed him, educate him and let him go.” And if feeding is not a problem, then you have to tinker with the education of a child. But letting go for many parents is an impossible task.
The main thing is not to try to break the system. It's yours. darling Sooner or later she will go to Ana (Natasha, Sveta or some other girl). And the highest manifestation of love here is to let the child go without reproaches and resentments, to let him go to a woman with whom he will build a new family.
How could it be different?
And today's edition. "Site" I'll tell you what it's like to be the mother of an only son. It is both happiness and great responsibility, pride and many trials. Is it true that only children grow up fast?
DepositPhotos
Even before birth, you choose his first overalls, thinking about what color your handsome will fit more to the face. In the evenings, you go through these things, imagining how you will squeeze and kiss him.
It is through a sea of waiting that he is born. You can't be happy, cuddle. He grows rapidly, learns to be capricious, crawl, stand. Here. son Already.
You sew him costumes of bunnies and daring cowboys, take him to kindergarten and comfort him when he is upset. You put iodine on scratched knees, and you sit by the crib at night when he's sick. And also fairy tales in the evening, kisses goodbye, endless “and you will buy me...” and other joys of motherhood.
And now he's a schoolboy. Your day starts with folding your briefcase, and ends with nightly sitting at textbooks as you try to help with your homework. And also calls from the teacher with a request to do something “after all, your Seryozha in the class beats everyone and does not allow passage.”
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And you explain what's right and what's wrong. You teach to be brave and decent, courageous and honest. You blush on everyone. parenthoodForgive constantly missing diaries and notebooks, rejoice in sports success and listen to the indignation of the neighbor like “your son is to blame, he was the first to climb.”
He grows out of the things you choose. But the older you get, the less you know about his life, the less he tells you. Sometimes he's gone all night, and you worry about him not knowing if he's okay.
DepositPhotos
You want to believe that this neighbor's Katka is nothing more than a youthful hobby, because she's not your son's mate. And then some Tanya enters the house, then Sveta, then another Katya. You don't try to remember their names anymore.
And then you notice that his classmate Anya feels at home. She looks in your fridge like she does, tinkering around the stove. It makes you angry, but you don't want to spoil the relationship, and you keep quiet.
Later, this same Anya says that you chose an old-fashioned shirt for Seryozh and he will not wear this. And you don't cook very well. And do not buy meat at all, because they decided to go on a diet together.
DepositPhotos
So your boy says he doesn't want to live with you anymore, he and Anya love each other, they're serious, and they move in. And so he eats her borscht, goes to her mom's for the weekend, puts on her chosen shirts.
Now he calls only on big holidays, and comes to visit even less often. They already choose the menu for the wedding and paint the family budget. Then everything is like everyone else: wedding, children, worries.
One day you’ll go through his things: clothes, toys, a broken PlayStation, photos. Here in one of the pictures smiles your toothless six-year-old Seryozha, for whom you were the most important person. And today you are, at best, the No. 2 woman in his life. And you just have to accept that. But weren’t you someone else’s “Ana” who took her son from her mother?
One wise proverb says, “Your child is your guest.” Feed him, educate him and let him go.” And if feeding is not a problem, then you have to tinker with the education of a child. But letting go for many parents is an impossible task.
The main thing is not to try to break the system. It's yours. darling Sooner or later she will go to Ana (Natasha, Sveta or some other girl). And the highest manifestation of love here is to let the child go without reproaches and resentments, to let him go to a woman with whom he will build a new family.
How could it be different?
