Why give birth to six children, when the family can barely make ends meet

Many women dream of having a strong family. To a big house, a loving husband and the sounds of little legs running around. Overall, that's great. But, as always, there are extremes. Too many children, as you know, do not happen, but you need to understand that this is a great responsibility. Even leave It can turn into a nightmare if she doesn't know how to keep an eye on them all.



And there are cases when mothers give birth to children not from great love, but for other, more commercial reasons. Assistance from the state, benefits and all kinds of support. Why take care of yourself, self-actualize, when you can just sit at home and just cook food for the whole sheep. And there's a husband. And there are many such cases.

In general, the situation is as follows. My sister is a very specific person. A mother of many children pregnant with her sixth child. So what, you ask? Well, I don't think she's doing well. I mean, they both can't, but I can only sympathize with her husband. He is not happy and can do nothing.



They live in such a way that the husband brings money, working two jobs, and my sister sits at home with the children and constantly cooks, sitting in front of the TV. As long as children are small, they need an eye and an eye. But the sister is not particularly worried: the elders look after the younger ones, and also share toys with them. Not just that.

My mom says they'll grow up and be more independent. Moreover, brothers and sisters who are not spoiled by excessive attention and money of parents will become very friendly in the future. To me, that's just plain empty talk.



My husband, again, works two jobs. Sometimes he is not home for days, despite the fact that our town is small. They even had scandals about it. He said he would just leave the family because he couldn’t keep up with the pace. All the best for children, but the wife will not hurt herself. And the man's eyes are really gone and his cheeks are completely down.

I understand that my sister just doesn't want to work. Now she will not be able - all the knowledge from school ate home routine, and higher education she was not born. Where will they get one?



Our government gives them money for their children. She has benefits, some small handouts, subsidies and so on. Sometimes they can even give you a vacation. You know what they say, "Life in a golden cage." Now, this cage is made of a different material, and it's locked itself in it. I don't understand why. As a brother, I condemn her very much and have much more respect for my brother-in-law than for my own sister.

From the editor, the situation, in our opinion, is of course difficult. First of all, a woman really is. does not develop. When you consider that she is constantly watching TV, cooking and cleaning after so many children (and her husband), it becomes clear that her future is very uncertain (sorry for the pun). I mean, it's a buck-a-buck. childish.

Come on, husband. If he's already started talking about divorce, that's a very alarming bell. The day will come, and the day will come. We doubt that maintenance They'll save the situation. And then there's health. Just imagine, the breadwinner of six children goes to the hospital for expensive treatment. Disaster.



phere The author mentioned allowances. Rest is a good thing, of course. But do not forget how much money children need to study. Again, with age, it will no longer be possible to dress them with the torn clothes of an older brother or sister. Yeah. rest In the sanatorium, to be honest, it is unlikely to leave any memories, except for the constant surveillance of children, so as not to get lost.

One last argument. Femininity. Even if the husband somehow stays in the family, the children will grow up entirely intelligent prodigies, and the state will provide a decent life. That mother won't change. This is a colossal blow to appearance (banal obesity from sitting in one place) and interests. Total lack of friends and girlfriends. Is it worth it? So we doubt it.



If earlier large families did not cause anyone surprise, now those days are over. The modern world requires a lot of energy, knowledge and great returns. Simply sit at home with a vatag of children will not work, and to no avail. Absolutely. Something needs to change.