The ex-husband can't forgive for not crawling back to him on his lap

Relationship between ex-spouses They don’t always go well. Few people respect their ex-partner. And some are ready at the first opportunity to pour dirt on their once-only love. There are, by the way, other situations. For example, when husbands even after a divorce continue to be angry with their ex-wives. Why this happens and why do it, read our article today.



I have a friend who divorced his wife a few years ago. More than 5 years have passed since then, but he continues to spread gossip about her and take an interest in her life. He literally follows her and rejoices like a child if he learns of her failures. And when he sees in social networks that she recovered or did an unsuccessful haircut, he will write a malicious comment.



The self-control of this woman can only be envied. She could have blocked him a long time ago without seeing what he was writing. Perhaps this is how she feels sorry for him? After all, no adequate and self-respecting man will descend to such lowliness. And this one hits another bottom year after year, thinking that he is taking revenge on her.

In fact, he's just mad at her. And myself, of course. But he doesn't want to admit it. When he met his ex-wife, he was an inexperienced young man. Together with her, he grew up and knew life, imagined his future. However, the reality is that sometimes the paths of loving people diverge. And that's totally normal!



It is a pity that not everyone is ready to accept this. After a 5-year marriage, the couple filed for divorce. My friend was 25 at the time: the perfect age to start over. But instead, year after year, he spent his time and energy on hate. This affected both his appearance and mental state.

It is amazing how ungrateful people are. This man's ex-wife actually loved him. She didn't notice that he was just using it for so many years, sitting around her neck. While she was successfully building her career and making money, her husband behaved like a freeloader. He also proposed to her as if he wanted to keep her close to him.



Of course, he had no money for the wedding. However, as with his parents, who never liked his son's chosen one. All expenses were borne by future and former mother-in-law with a father-in-law. They, by the way, pushed the woman to the idea of divorce. They just saw that marriage depresses her, not makes her happy.



The fact that the former son-in-law is still terrorizing their daughter, they do not know. Otherwise, action would be taken quickly. What does our hero-lover want? Perhaps, with his unreasonable anger, he tries to close his eyes to his own insignificance. Over the years, he has achieved nothing or even tried to do so. It is unlikely that he will be able to assert himself at the expense of his ex-wife.

Sometimes you hear some story and wonder: is it possible to be angry with such a kind, responsive and good woman? The paradox is that these ladies usually get the most. Yesterday, the beloved wife washed her husband’s dirty laundry and prepared him delicacies, and today everything must be done by yourself. Disorder!



If a good wife leaves a man, she automatically hurts his pride. To appease the affected ego, he reproaches and hates. A small man is not ready to put up with the fact that his former love will find happiness without him. He is not able to truly rejoice for her, because anger boils in him.

There are also more prosaic reasons. For example, the former spouses did not share the property or the man will have to pay alimony. Not everyone is noble and decency. So it remains only to be angry with his wife and scold the villain fate for his misfortunes.



Do such men command respect? Hardly. Pity? Maybe. They are often to blame for what happened to them. And relationship They need to respect each other and remember what connected them. After all, only recently from their lips the phrase “I love you” came and went.