Mom bathes in money, and daughter counts every penny to survive

Solving financial problems It is an important part of the life of any family. Who among us has not faced material difficulties? Perhaps no one is immune from this. And it is good if relatives are ready to help in a difficult time. But not everyone is so lucky. Moreover, sometimes you need to fight against outright bullying from the closest people.



The heroine of today’s history is in this situation. Her mother mocks her problems and considers her husband a loser. As she bathes in money, her daughter counts every penny to survive. Whether this is normal and why everything turned out so, read further in the article.

My mother thinks my husband is a loser because he finds it difficult to provide for our family. When she calls me, she asks with a grin, “Have you finished your last loaf of bread or something?” Does she not understand how hard it is for us?



The fact is that now in our family only the husband works. Our little son Kolenka is a sunny child. I spend most of my time with him, trying to create the conditions for his development. But it requires a lot of money. I take my son to special classes and to the pool. In addition, we pay a loan for the apartment. In general, the costs are more than enough.

My husband has constant problems with his job. We have to get out and look for any part-time job, where they will not be cheated and pay wages on time. I know how hard Andrew is, but I can't help him. My mother also puts oil on the fire from time to time. I don't understand why she's so cruel to me and our family.



She thinks my husband is a loser. How can a man be unable to provide for his family? Very simple! We live in such a turbulent time. It took us a year to find the right person to help us connect with our son. Everything costs a lot of money, and it’s no secret. But my mother refuses to understand that.

She lives with her mother without denying herself anything. She has her own 1-room apartment, and the second, which she inherited, she rents to tenants. The income is decent and, most importantly, stable. We can only dream of that.



You know, I never asked her for help, I always tried to do it myself. When she found out about the peculiarity of our baby, she sighed with the words: “Well, with such a husband and not surprising, of course!” Is that normal?! I was in a lot of pain, but I'm not used to fighting with her. What's the point? Sometimes I feel like I need to learn to defend my boundaries and protect my family from their attacks. But I just can't.

I haven't bought anything for a long time, not before. My husband and I are saving on everything to keep my son happy. And I know I'm doing the right thing because children are the most important thing in life. I wish my mom had understood that. It feels like she's calling me not to find out how we're doing, but just to make fun of me again.



My close friend knows everything, but she believes that her mother will come to her senses. She even asks me to help her financially. But it just doesn't make sense. I'm tired of hitting a closed door and humiliating myself in front of my mother. There was a time when everything was fine. But when Andrew appeared in my life, she immediately disliked him.

I know that the dark period in life will end. My husband and I will find a solution to all our financial problems. It is a pity that with my mother it is unlikely to be possible to establish contact.

From the editorial office Nedarom they say: "You will not be violently nice." It is foolish to waste time in contacting your mother if she does not want to. A good adult will not laugh at other people’s problems. Especially when it comes to a native daughter who is raising a child with an incurable illness. I want to believe that the family of the main character will find a way out of this situation as soon as possible!



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