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Is it necessary to run like a chicken with an egg with a woman who makes herself a princess?
Many men are puzzled over how to win a woman. But truly wise representatives of the stronger sex think about whether it is worth it at all. Do women need that?
The very idea of what to achieve for reciprocity seems very dubious. What kind of reciprocity is it if it comes only after a series of heroic acts. Of course, any young lady will be pleased with the attention of a man and by this attention she will be able to understand that a man is interested in a relationship with her.
However, now we are not talking about the usual courtship, but about “heavy artillery”. Is it really possible to build a good relationship, if initially a woman had no special feelings for a man, and they appeared only as a result of some of his ingenuity?
For some reason I am sure that if the feelings are mutual, then no one should be taken with a fight. The girl is not a prize or a thing. Otherwise, there is already some confusion, to put it mildly. What? If a girl really doesn’t want a relationship? What if you don’t understand the word “no”?
Both must choose. Because I think it's impossible. take away someone's spouse. People decide for themselves who to be with. If a lady is interested in a courtier, he will see it clearly. If not, then it will be superfluous.
Sometimes interest is difficult to determine. But We're not teenagers or students.People who do not know how to express their feelings correctly. An adult may simply ask if he is interested in another. Fear of rejection in this case is not necessary. Believe me, if you are not interested in a girl and continue to pursue her, then nothing good will come of it.
Someone will say that such directness, which I recommend above, as if taking away romance and mystery. Perhaps, but only if the relationship does not imply seriousness, duration and generally any continuation. Of course, short-lived beach romances usually want to be flavored with such mystery and alleged conquest of a woman.
We are talking about real adult relationships. It's only in the books that the prince gets the princess' attention. That's not how life works. And believe me, it's good. The love that will keep you happy for years is tied to mutual respect, friendship, tenderness and trust. The key word here is “mutual”. And what can there be reciprocity and equality in a relationship if one is something of a prize for the other?
The very idea of what to achieve for reciprocity seems very dubious. What kind of reciprocity is it if it comes only after a series of heroic acts. Of course, any young lady will be pleased with the attention of a man and by this attention she will be able to understand that a man is interested in a relationship with her.
However, now we are not talking about the usual courtship, but about “heavy artillery”. Is it really possible to build a good relationship, if initially a woman had no special feelings for a man, and they appeared only as a result of some of his ingenuity?
For some reason I am sure that if the feelings are mutual, then no one should be taken with a fight. The girl is not a prize or a thing. Otherwise, there is already some confusion, to put it mildly. What? If a girl really doesn’t want a relationship? What if you don’t understand the word “no”?
Both must choose. Because I think it's impossible. take away someone's spouse. People decide for themselves who to be with. If a lady is interested in a courtier, he will see it clearly. If not, then it will be superfluous.
Sometimes interest is difficult to determine. But We're not teenagers or students.People who do not know how to express their feelings correctly. An adult may simply ask if he is interested in another. Fear of rejection in this case is not necessary. Believe me, if you are not interested in a girl and continue to pursue her, then nothing good will come of it.
Someone will say that such directness, which I recommend above, as if taking away romance and mystery. Perhaps, but only if the relationship does not imply seriousness, duration and generally any continuation. Of course, short-lived beach romances usually want to be flavored with such mystery and alleged conquest of a woman.
We are talking about real adult relationships. It's only in the books that the prince gets the princess' attention. That's not how life works. And believe me, it's good. The love that will keep you happy for years is tied to mutual respect, friendship, tenderness and trust. The key word here is “mutual”. And what can there be reciprocity and equality in a relationship if one is something of a prize for the other?
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