What to do if the ex-husband was a cuckoo and dragged into the house of a one-year-old child

If the mother left the children to her husband Taking care of your own business is normal? What do you say if it's not her husband, but everything else remains the same? Agree, history is changing fundamentally.



This situation happened to our reader, who has been in real despair for some time. In fact, it is not possible to legally resolve this situation, and there are already victims. Anyway, let's go straight.

Leaving children to her husband Peter, Petya was never particularly cunning. Being a handsome guy by nature, he never had a problem with the opposite sex. Yes, I did. Yeah, I met girls. And yes, he did. It's young.

Well, one day a girl from the past called him and “pleased” young Casanova that he would soon become a father. Having carefully considered everything and decided on the beginning of adulthood, Peter decided not to run away from his fate, but with courage to accept it into open arms.

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They dated Victoria for a little over a month. And Petya decided to do the right thing, as his heart commanded: he offered to come together and live together. Who knows, maybe something will come out of this, because love, sometimes, unexpectedly comes when you do not expect it. That's what they did. Peter rented an apartment, and they healed together, waiting for the child to be born.

But it didn't work. Petya and Vika were too different, and during pregnancy this difference became even more painful. Time passed and the deadline was approaching nine months. After the birth of her daughter Victoria and her mother (who immediately came to the young) only more settled on the young man, shifting all the work with the child on the new father. He's gonna love the baby more.



After a huge number of quarrels, resentments and tantrums, it became clear that this can not continue, and the young mother went to her home to raise her daughter alone. From that moment, Peter began sending her money every month for her life and child. It would seem that the choice is made and everything is fair.

A month later, Petya met a wonderful girl. It was clear from the start that they were going to be serious. We started living in her small, but cozy apartment, and six months later we got married. Needless to say, this girl's name is Maria and it's me. The month we got married, Pete failed to make a payment to Vika, and she threw a tantrum.

I must say that I learned everything about Petina's situation from him. Peter didn’t hide anything and I respect him very much. So from that time on, Vika started sending my husband all kinds of game. That my daughter misses him (the baby is already missing, aha), that she wants to be with him, and even better with us with an overnight stay and all that. Naturally, I advised him to keep sending money, but to go to his daughter during the day and only for those few hours a week when he had free time.



And this theater could go on for a long time, until one day a young mother came by taxi to our house with her things. The taxi driver took them right to our doorstep, and she was carrying her child in her arms. Without any conscience, she gave the girl Pete, who just eyes on his forehead climbed from such a situation.

Coo-coo! It turns out, since we've already arranged a personal life, we can wait a bit, babysit the baby. She has a bad situation: she fought with her mother, lives with a friend. There are no men, as there is no one to leave the daughter. At the end of her monologue, she sat down in a taxi waiting for her and drove off in an unknown direction. Already on the phone, we learned that she plans to leave the girl with her father for a couple of days.



A week has passed and I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown. We took the crib from the neighbors, bought baby formula, toys. The cuckoo mother brought clothes with her. Diapers and other things that you need for a child, buy. But I am more concerned about the attitude of a mother to her child, how can this be so. And she says she still needs time for a relationship, so we need to be patient.



On Internet forums, moms scold me, they say that such happiness has fallen, and I am a bad person and I do not understand how lucky I am. They say that we take the baby with us and not give it to our mother. But I want my children, and too early for me yet, I am cramped even by three in my one, even if for a short time. Anyway, I'm shocked. I might get some advice here, because I'm afraid to think what might happen next.

Yes, very sorry for the baby, because she is not at all guilty. It’s not her fault that her parents are in a situation where they can’t and don’t want to be together. But these "travels" ... Try talking to Vicky's mom, maybe she'll tell you something new or agree to stay with her granddaughter while her daughter handles personal matters. And we wish you luck!