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Why after fifty should refuse guests in the house
It is great when there are close people who are always pleasant to see, with whom you want to spend time. But what in his youth brought so much pleasure, in the later years can tire. And even dear Noisy gatherings at home become a real test.
What are the reasons for refusing loud feasts? Why do we prefer to meet in neutral territory? Why do we even celebrate in the cafe?
Dear guests "Up to 50 years adored noisy companies." Always invited friends to visit. But after her 50th birthday, she began to look at “gulls” differently. I decided that peace is most important, Natalia wrote.
In a young time I wanted to communicate, walk, go somewhere, hurry. Now I just want to sit at home with a cup of tea without anyone touching you. If I meet my friends, it’s in neutral territory. If she was tired, she made up an excuse and left. And if guests are sitting with you, you will not drive them away.
“Every time a big company sits at home, someone spills a drink, someone drops a piece of cake. And so many gatherings, so many times you have to do the general cleaning. It used to be seen as normal. Now it is already a burden ...”
“Cooking is boring, too. On my 50th birthday, I tinkered in the kitchen until evening. I remember that before the guests arrived, I wanted to just lie down on the couch and lie silently, rather than fluttering around the kitchen and accepting congratulations.
“Money is too expensive. When my husband made good money, we didn’t pay attention. But now he's retired, so expenses have to be cut. The current income is not a big deal.”
“How many dirty dishes! This part of the kitchen has always disgusted me. I think a lot of women feel the same way. But I never bought a dishwasher, and washing a mountain of plates after the holiday is a very dubious pleasure.
“Therefore, I will not prepare anything for my husband’s anniversary. Even though he's asking. Better to spend money, order a cafe and walk normally. Without all the cooking, cleaning and unnecessary tinkering. Not those years already, the woman concluded.
Of course, there are those who like to feel like a hospitable host and enjoy seeing satisfied guests. But don’t you want to feel like the most important guest on a holiday (especially if it’s a personal holiday)?
What are the reasons for refusing loud feasts? Why do we prefer to meet in neutral territory? Why do we even celebrate in the cafe?
Dear guests "Up to 50 years adored noisy companies." Always invited friends to visit. But after her 50th birthday, she began to look at “gulls” differently. I decided that peace is most important, Natalia wrote.
In a young time I wanted to communicate, walk, go somewhere, hurry. Now I just want to sit at home with a cup of tea without anyone touching you. If I meet my friends, it’s in neutral territory. If she was tired, she made up an excuse and left. And if guests are sitting with you, you will not drive them away.
“Every time a big company sits at home, someone spills a drink, someone drops a piece of cake. And so many gatherings, so many times you have to do the general cleaning. It used to be seen as normal. Now it is already a burden ...”
“Cooking is boring, too. On my 50th birthday, I tinkered in the kitchen until evening. I remember that before the guests arrived, I wanted to just lie down on the couch and lie silently, rather than fluttering around the kitchen and accepting congratulations.
“Money is too expensive. When my husband made good money, we didn’t pay attention. But now he's retired, so expenses have to be cut. The current income is not a big deal.”
“How many dirty dishes! This part of the kitchen has always disgusted me. I think a lot of women feel the same way. But I never bought a dishwasher, and washing a mountain of plates after the holiday is a very dubious pleasure.
“Therefore, I will not prepare anything for my husband’s anniversary. Even though he's asking. Better to spend money, order a cafe and walk normally. Without all the cooking, cleaning and unnecessary tinkering. Not those years already, the woman concluded.
Of course, there are those who like to feel like a hospitable host and enjoy seeing satisfied guests. But don’t you want to feel like the most important guest on a holiday (especially if it’s a personal holiday)?
