Why Adults Should Not Be Forcing Their Own Opinions and Deciding for Them

Everyone thinks that he knows better than others how to live this life. If they like something else, the main thing is to bend your line. Especially this is used by mothers of sons, who consider it their duty to eat the brain of a young and inexperienced daughter-in-law. There comes a time when you have to collect the stones. And others think, How to learn to forgive.



Editorial "Site" I have something to say about it. We have an interesting story, which is about a mother-in-law who thought that her opinion should be above everyone else. But everything in order. As they say, in the first person.

I tried to marry Pete another girl, but he still raves about his Tonya. Says, yes, Sveta is good, but if Tona doesn't need me, then why would the Light need me? No, Mom, I don't want anyone but Tony. I'm sitting there thinking what an old fool I am. Why did you interfere in their lives?

My son has changed a lot. I didn’t leave the house for a while, I was just begging for food. He closed himself and lost interest in life. Barely persuaded her friends to go to nature, it became even worse. He's been gone all day, drinking. It's like that. boy was!



Here we go. Everything that Tone promised to turn her life into hell, she got. Petya is completely unfriendly, irritated. You might be rude, you quit your job. Jesus! With horror I see his life going downhill. A year has gone by like this, Tony has given me no hesitation to look for her.



It was stupid to have any hope after I got out of the house. I remember how happy I was when Petya came and said that Tonya had abandoned him. Just left, didn't explain anything. And now I'm so ashamed! I don't know if that girl will forgive me. I wish I could find her sooner!

Finding her father, he's neither dreaming nor spiriting where his daughter is. You're gray, you ran away from him. Everywhere she went, even a private detective was hired to find Tonya and here, finally, the address in hand. Went to townI cut all ties here. I didn't say anything to Pete, I just got on the train and went to her place.



At the door of the apartment stopped, ate a pill of validol, so the heart was pounding. I prayed to God that Tonya would be alone. I wanted to talk to her, to apologize. Is that why you hurt the poor girl? Why didn't I like her? Tired Tonya did not immediately understand who was in front of her. She finally said, "You?" I asked you to come in.

She let me go, took me to the kitchen, put some tea on. With dry lips, I apologized to her and told her that if she wasn’t alone... “Not alone,” Tonya interrupted me, “Now I have Gregory.” Only now he is asleep. I burst into tears. What was I supposed to do now? I had absolutely no idea.



I heard a child wailing in the room, my heart broke. Any chance to get Tonya back was lost. She returned to the kitchen with the baby and said to him, “Here, Grishenka, meet me.” This is your grandmother, Angela Leonidovna. My eyes are dark.

I have never felt such a terrible sense of shame in my whole life. My poor girl! I knelt in front of Tonya and begged her to forgive me. I asked her why she didn't say she was pregnant, because it would have changed a lot. Tonya replied that I would still hate her, and she wanted to raise a child in love.



We talked for a long time, I begged her to come back, promised to do everything to make her not feel uncomfortable anymore. And Petya misses her so much. Thank God Tonya didn't say no. Apparently, she felt sorry for me, promised to think. I know she's forgiven me before, but she's lost confidence in me. I now pray that I change my mind.”

We rarely think about the fact that wishing happiness to one, you can not drive into the framework of another. You will never be happy in someone else’s misfortune. Trust your loved ones and let them trust you. Any mistakes can be forgiven. Happiness is so fragile and plainly Destroy it. Will we be able to build it again?



On the subject, How to learn to forgiveUnfortunately, science is not. It all comes from the heart. It is important, as they say, not to stumble at the start, but you never know where you will stumble. We wish you a good mood and offer another link, where the main character again acts mother-in-law. Be sure to write about your impressions in the comments.