What it really means when you are blocked or removed from friends

Online communication has long been an important part of our life. And recently, due to well-known circumstances, correspondence with friends and video communication in social networks is almost the only way to feel like a part of society.



Perhaps that is why, when a close friend at some point decides to stay offline for you forever, it is so difficult and painful for us to make his decision and let the person go.



Some people perceive the ending of a friendship on social media as a personal failure, for which they themselves are to blame. In fact, everything is a little different and it is easier to relate to such changes. And today the editorial board of the Site will tell you exactly why.

How to let go of a person People are so arranged that each of us needs communication. In spite of everything, any person wants to be needed and meaningful to others.

It would seem that social networks only help to gain attention and sympathy for your person.

Numerous filters in the search for new friends help to quickly find like-minded people, and likes and comments under our posts create a kind of public love around our profiles on various sites.



When it is not possible to find understanding and participation from subscribers, we easily remove them from friends. After all, it is much easier to press the "delete" or "block" button than to talk to a person, looking into his eyes.

The bottom line is that Internet platforms have contributed not only to the fact that communication has become easier and more accessible, but as a result - also to the fact that many people have simply begun to devalue it.



Often, the decision to abandon friendship with an Internet friend is spontaneous. It should be understood that some do not even need special reasons to accept it. Sometimes it is enough just to want (or have) any changes in life.

Therefore, you should not take such a refusal personally and desperately try to figure out what to do if a loved one avoids you.

Perhaps this person is just not that close? Or maybe this relationship has simply expired. No matter how cynical it may sound, but after all, everything ever ends, and it just needs to be accepted.



Editorial advice To let a person out of our life often does not give us insult and misunderstanding. When someone decides to stop communicating with us, it not only hurts our pride, but also causes unwarranted feelings of guilt.

Pride suffers from the thought, "So I'm not good enough." Feelings of guilt provoke a false belief that in the process of communication we could somehow offend a person and not understand this.



Of course, when it comes to relationships that have built up over the years, you can't just ignore these changes. You should try to contact a loved one and ask him to discuss what happened with you (in a personal meeting to avoid any misunderstandings).

But if, in response to your request, you again receive an unreasonable refusal, then it’s true, the time has come to say goodbye to this person.



In any case, it is worth remembering that the actions of other people do not characterize us in any way. We make any decisions relying solely on our own inner feelings.

If someone close decided to say goodbye to you, then it was necessary for him. It is worth respecting his decision and letting him go.

And if just an acquaintance decided to cut off communication, there is nothing to worry about. After all, each parting entails a new amazing meeting.



Just remember that you are still loved by someone, and for someone, even the most significant person on the planet. Appreciate the people who stay by your side no matter what. And also thank those who left for the experience. And believe that whatever is done is only for the best!