Behavior for which we condemn even close friends, but consider it permissible

How often do we look at behavior condemningly But we can do exactly the same things as them. It is not in vain that it is said that sometimes you see a straw in someone else's eye, but you do not notice a log in your own.



© Freepik Today editorial office "Site" I've prepared some interesting material for you. In this article we will draw your attention to 14 things that we allow ourselves, but do not tolerate in strangers. I wonder if you recognize yourself in any of our situations.

Other people's behavior

1. Imitation of other people. Does a friend look at someone else’s dress and want to buy it? Well, things happen. But that's no reason to judge her. Sometimes you want to copy someone else’s image or buy the same thing. There's nothing shameful about it!
2. There's no argument about taste.. Today you wonder why a friend didn't like your movie. "You just didn't understand him!" you say. And tomorrow the same thing happens to you and you do not like any of the preferences of your soul mate. Familiar?
   
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3. Appearance advice. A friend said your new earrings don't suit you. Of course you didn't like it. An hour later, you're excitedly discussing a new dress on your friend. Don't allow yourself to do that!
4. Age is not an argument. Remember when your parents told you they were older and knew better? Not the best tactic. But with our children we sometimes behave the same way. Don't do that!
   
   
   
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5. Not caring about other people. Is there someone on the train stopping you from sleeping? You're obviously not going to like this. And on the next trip to the whole car, your voice sounds loud. Unconscious revenge or simple selfishness?

A few more examples. Neglecting others. It's been late at midnight, and there's loud music playing behind the wall? Yeah, I don't think anyone would like that. But remember yourself on your birthday. You want to have more fun, don’t you?



© Freepik Selfish prioritization. Simple example. In the morning, someone took the bathroom, and you rush to work. Of course, the situation will cause your discontent. You do the same thing in the evening, but with other people. For example, it takes a long time to fix your makeup in a restaurant while the line is going outside the door. Unsolicited advice. People just hate being given advice. But they often consider it their duty to tell others how to live. Such behavior is quite hypocritical.

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Indulging your children. Sometimes we are surprised by the behavior of other children. “Is it possible to raise a child in this way?” – asked out every time. And then it turns out that it is very even possible, if we are talking about a loved one. Again, it's hypocrisy! The behavior of others in society Stereotyped thinking. How often do we think stereotypically about other people and then fall victim to the same stereotypes? Don't do that!

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Neglecting the queue. What can be more annoying than a person who is in line? “I’ll just ask,” you’ll hear. Of course it pisses me off. But for some reason, we often do exactly the same. It's worth thinking about! Useless persuasion. Your friend refused to order a juicy steak at the restaurant? No way! You have to convince him, even if he is a vegetarian. Well, at home you are waiting for the insistent requests of your mother to eat a portion of supplements for dinner. The classic of the genre...



© Freepik We allow ourselves more than we should.. For example, a girl is outraged by the brazen behavior of a guy. But she is doing exactly the same thing as him. It can manifest itself in absolutely anything. In addition, this is often justified by the gender of the person. boasting. Is it annoying when friends talk about their travels? It is better to remember your endless stream of photos on social networks after another trip abroad. It's a similar story, isn't it?



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Of course, all these examples are deliberately exaggerated. But that way you'll know exactly how much behavior Sometimes not different from ours. Before judging anyone and expressing your dissatisfaction, think twice and look at yourself. Healthy reflection is always a good idea.

Have you ever had a situation like this? Tell me, what made you realize you were doing the wrong thing? We'll see you in the comments!