Why parents deprive one sister, and the other bathe in luxury

We have a strange feature in many families: very often conflicts arise in families with a sister. I never had a sister, but it was always interesting. Is it really hard to fix? sisterhood? How is it that sisters can’t share anything? I may be biased, but judge for yourself.

I heard a very interesting story recently. I don’t know how it happened, but I met a girl in a coffee shop. We talked for a while, and she told me about her extraordinary vicissitudes.



She grew up in a good middle-class family. My parents had money, but I couldn’t tell them to be cool. She was the only and most beloved child in the family. And then a terrible grief happened.

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Her aunt died with a daughter of the same age. They were both 7 years old at the time. The father gathered a family council and said that they would take the aunt’s daughter and live together. My friend said she remembers the joy she experienced. She's gonna have a real sister.



The girl in the family appeared as a small monster. But everyone understood her condition and treated her with respect. The nursery was remodeled, a second bed was put up and warned that even some things would have to be shared.



Over time, the girl settled down and became a real nightmare for her own daughter. But the parents did not notice it. In all the quarrels were on the side of the sister, and his own daughter was constantly scolded.



It got to the point that when it came time to enter the university, they paid for her training on a fee. And her own daughter could not enter the budget and went to the correspondence department herself.

Such a gesture of parents is difficult to understand, and she could not forgive them. I rented a room with my grandmother and went to work. Then I found out that my sister had a great wedding.



At what point did parents begin to love their adopted daughter more than their own? I've been asking this question for a long time.

It is not news that parents love some children more than others. Forgiving them can be extremely difficult. But I still think it's worth trying. Forget all the grievances and try to ask all the questions straight.

You know those stories? Share them in the comments.