Why the lack of housing inexorably leads a family to divorce

There are several reasons why spouses divorce. Sometimes it seems like divorce is inevitable. Is it worth divorcing, or is it possible to save the marriage? So much time and effort was put into creating a family. Andrey Tkachev told in which cases people simply can not get along.



Married couples hold several things: the material component in 52% of cases, the disagreement of one of the partners to divorce in 18% of cases, and children retain 35% of married couples.
St. John Chrysostom said: Our world is a state created from cities. Cities create marriages, and marriages are men and women.” This means that an invincible country consists of strong marriages. How do you fix the terrible divorce statistics?



Here is what priest Andrey Tkachev says on this occasion: About 40% of divorced people say that the reason is the harmful habits of the spouse. By the way, the Orthodox Church allows you to unilaterally dissolve the marriage and leave the impossible environment.

14% admit that the lack of a home is another reason for divorce. Living with parents is physically and psychologically uncomfortable. It is difficult for a daughter-in-law to compete with her mother-in-law in the kitchen and constantly feel the superiority of her husband's mother. Wanting to feel like a master in their own home, young couples decide to rent housing. It's complicated and not everyone can afford it.



Another 14% of divorces are intrusion into the privacy of the spouses. No one sticks their fingers in the socket because they know they can’t. Not everyone knows that when young people get married, the husband becomes the closest person to the girl and vice versa. Before marriage, the closest people are mom and dad. But when you get married, parents have to take a step back in the name of love and understanding.



This is an elementary truth that not everyone agrees to accept. The Bible says, “A man will leave his father and mother, and cling to his wife, and they will be one flesh.” What God has combined, let not man part.



The young bride thinks that her mother is still the closest person. It's not, the husband is closer. Men mistakenly believe that their mother knows better how to build a family life. It is not so, listen to your wife, your family happiness depends on her.”



Personal experience: I am a husband and father. The person closest to me, my number one support, is my wife. Mom can give you good advice. Whether or not to listen to it is up to me. A husband and wife are one. When a marriage breaks down, it is like an apple split in half.

There are many reasons for marriage breakups, and everyone has their own. Knowing what the problem is can save a family. You need to invest considerable effort and resources in a relationship to live happily. You need to save for your own housing, support each other, know who is in charge of the family, distribute responsibilities.



It is important to live separately from the first days of marriage. Marriage is not just a stamp in your passport. Both spouses must fight for marriage. In order to preserve a family, one must be intelligent, kind and religious.”

When it seems that nothing can be fixed, remember the person you fell in love with. Daily routine, problems at work cloud our minds. And we begin to tear our anger at the closest people. Find out what the problem is. Try to solve it together with your husband, fight for your happiness.