A son’s disheartening response to his mother’s torment over marriage and grandchildren

Every woman wants her children to grow up to be good people, create their own family and live in prosperity and well-being. Of course, she is looking forward to the arrival of grandchildren who will give her a new meaning in life. But what if your child is not in a hurry to stamp the passport? And what to do when mother-in-law Does he play a bigger role than anyone else?



Things happen in life. Sometimes we don’t realize all the mistakes we’ve made. This is what happened to the heroine of today’s story. He wanted only the best for his son, but he did not know how to do it. ruined his dreams. I want to share with you a story that makes you think about life.

For 5 years my husband and I have been trying to have a baby. How many tears were shed, words cannot tell! Especially on the day I saw the cherished 2 stripes. I was in my 30s and I knew there could be problems with a late baby. No one is surprised by a late pregnancy. But in my age, it wasn't accepted.

When my son was born, I was out of my mind for a long time. I thought a lot about how many years it would take for him to grow up, get an education, start a family. When it comes to my grandkids, I'll get old. I'm 65 now, my son is 35, and he's still not married.



He lived all his life in his parents’ home. My husband and I did not mind, and my son did not want to move. When my husband died, he became even more attached to me. I gave him all the care, tried to drown out the pain of losing my husband. But the desire to play with my own grandson or granddaughter also did not leave me.

One day I dared to talk to my son. She asked him why he didn’t want to get married and have children. There must be a reason, right? The question surprised him a little. But he replied calmly:



“Mom, I have always considered you a wise woman. Don't you understand? I am 36 years old and I am no longer a young boy. But all my life I lived in this apartment where everyone took care of me. I don't need anything, you gave me everything for a comfortable life. And to be honest, I think I'm dependent on you. Sometimes I feel like I already have a wife. It's like you took on the role. Cooking, washing, buying new clothes, ironing shirts.

I know it sounds terrible, but I'm used to this life. I feel comfortable being independent, I like it. Why should I get married and spend my life on someone else? Yeah, I've had women. But none of them compare to you. No one can love me as much as you. Don't expect to have grandchildren. You better do something interesting. Why don't we get a cat?



Shock, rejection, tears... What have I done? With his own hands he destroyed a happy old age. My husband often told me to stop babysitting my son. How right he was! I waited so hard for the baby that I ended up devoting my whole life to it. I worked day and night to make him feel good. The best school, university, clothes... And where did all this lead?



I don't know what to do now. Will I spend the rest of my life caring for my grown son? But I can't put him out, it's stupid and pointless. I only have him, and I love him. What am I supposed to do? ?

Unfortunately, not everyone can correct the mistakes of the past. This story is a clear example of what a destructive role can play. mother-in-law. Although he is completely satisfied with the way he lives, it will later play a cruel joke with him. We truly believe that people can change. However, no one will give any guarantee that this will happen to the main character of today’s story.



What advice would you give to an unhappy mother who has lost faith in a happy old age? You may have experienced such a story. Anyway, we'll be interested in your opinion. Leave your comments at the bottom!