What to do if the wife constantly turns away, wrapped in a blanket

“My wife is a good person. But as a woman she is not attracted to me, is a phrase that you often hear at a reception with a psychologist. Family discord It's a typical modern problem. There are many reasons for this. But, of course, it is not only in women that they hide.

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© Freepik Today the editors want to understand, Why do husbands cheat on their wives? and whether it can be prevented. This will help us with an example from the real life of one man and advice from an experienced family psychologist. Stay with us if you are interested in this topic.

At some point my wife started to distance herself from me. This was especially felt physically. No matter how I tried to approach her, the answer was the same: “Get off and sleep.” At first I thought a divorce was coming. I didn’t want to, because there are already children.

But at some point I found solace in other, stranger women. No one else refused me, on the contrary, I was waiting and wanted. This went on for several years. The relationship with his wife has completely disappeared. They lived in the same apartment but were like strangers. She's always on the road for work, and I sit in the office day after day.



© Freepik At one point I felt utter devastation. I wasn’t happy about anything except meeting women. And I met them less and less. How to get rid of feelings of disappointment in your wife and how to stop hating yourself? Maybe we can still fix it. ?

Why are spouses disappointed in each other? Among the many reasons, psychologists single out one of the most important. Both husband and wife cease to fulfill their role in marriage. This is manifested in personal, household and behavioral details.



For example, a man does not consider it necessary to care for the well-being of the family and take responsibility for solving problems. Any request of the wife is taken in bayonets. Moreover, the husband often complains to his wife in the hope that she will fix everything. And there are cases when husbands behave aggressively, despotic.

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© Freepik In turn, the woman becomes more secretive. With her husband she behaves cold and alienated. There is no physical proximity or question. All the actions of the husband do not cause any emotions in the wife. Also, she does not tell her husband about her experiences, she accumulates everything in herself. But there are cases when a woman, on the contrary, becomes powerful and wants to control a man.

Any relationship needs the spouse to work on it. If a marriage breaks at the seams, it is important to realize this in time. And then immediately start solving the problem. The situation of the hero of today’s story is not hopeless.



© Freepik Psychologist offers to reanimate the relationship with his wife. No more cheating or thinking about other women. Second, stop complaining and feel sorry for yourself. Let a man remember everything he promised his wife. And then it starts to work.

Obviously, both were guilty of this story. But the husband is much bigger. He needs to learn to talk to his wife. Interested in her life, desires, preferences. In addition, it is important to notice the actions and achievements of the wife, pay attention to each other.



The wife definitely has reasons to explain her indifference. If the husband wants to save the marriage and atone for it, he needs to find out what the matter is. Of course, the main problem is that the family problem has been getting worse for years. But there is always a chance for a happy outcome.

Tell me if you believe that division Can it be corrected, whatever the reason for its appearance? Maybe you've experienced this in your personal life. It would be great if you shared your story in the comments!