After what actions the spouse who decided to leave the family cancels the divorce and flies back to the nest

Family dramas are happening more often than we think. And if you count how much is unspoken, secret and sinful, the hair becomes on end. When our readers learned that their adult father left the familyHe wanted to know what it was about.



Which he actually wrote about. It turned out quite a non-trivial and instructive story worthy of our publication. By the way, we want to remind you that you can also share your story and it will be visible to all readers. "Site".

My father is 57 years old, he is 2 years older than my mother. Thank goodness I am thirty years old and have a child. You know, the grown-up son of adult parents. Well, at least I thought so. Some time ago, my father, a gray-haired but fit man, decided to leave the family. I mean, how to leave, just get divorced.

I found out a few days later and my first reaction was shock. How? His own father, for whom such a thing has never been noticed, decided to take this and leave his own person. Another woman, just an affair, what could be the reason for such a childish act?



I must say that our family is not poor enough. Relatively, of course. The parents raised some money during their years together. Home, car. Not stupid, that's for sure. I have always valued them for sober reason and logic. Especially my father, who taught me how to be a man. Now here's the news.

It turned out that he was actually tired of married life. There were no women on the side, but he said he wanted more. Marriage stopped him and eventually he got tired of it.



Mom, to my surprise, wasn't worried at all. At all. A couple of days later, she called her father for a serious conversation and there she set her own conditions. She refused to divorce, it was agreed immediately. But I let my dad leave home for six months. He was unable to take any property from his home or even his car. They say that the court will still meet her and the father will get only junk from the garage.

But in six months, if he returns with the desire to divorce, she will sign all the necessary papers without talking. I saw him a couple of days later and I noticed that Dad was happy, even drunk. After taking some things, he moved into a rented apartment. The salary was enough to make you feel like a bachelor.



What happened next, I learned much later. His father registered on all sorts of dating sites, went to nightclubs and just met women on the street. Like a modern student or something. But in personal meetings, the same situation always happened. Women saw his age and immediately asked him about his financial condition.

And what can be the condition of a man living in a rented one? There is no car, there is money, but now there is not enough. Women, a little younger, but still not girls, did not even flirt, but asked head-on what they could get from their “union”. And the answer didn't suit them at all.



With one of them, the father went as much as 3 dates, but the last ended with the fact that the woman came with two young children with whom there was no one to stay. She asked me to go to the park, feed the kids, buy presents and all that. Having spent a large part of the cash that he had until his paycheck, his father left, saying that he was early to get up for work.

It's been 4 months. Fatigue made itself felt, because no one canceled washing, ironing and cleaning. You can't spoil at work. Gathered up with courage, Dad bought flowers and a gift with the remaining money and wandered into his home. Already there, as in a melodramatic movie, he was kneeling, confessing his love, crying.

My mom let him in, of course. For a while they lived in different parts of the house, so to speak, got used to it. But over time, my father was forgiven. I invited my wife and I to a family meeting to celebrate my return. There he basically told me everything. I asked some questions from my mother.



Now they're back together, dad blows the dust off mom, even cooks and cleans when there's time. He became more accommodating, even his pretentious severity disappeared somewhere. Well, they do. I now admire the wisdom and intelligence of my mother, not my father. I hope she has no regrets. Everything happens in life, it happens.