The story of a tormented madam, whose boat goes to the bottom under the weight of extra pounds

When did this happen? Ten years ago, a hundred or a thousand? When did women devalue themselves and do anything to please men? Or is it just an instinct that cannot be overcome even with deep self-awareness? You know, comb the feathers, and the male is here. And here's the question: How to love yourself as a woman?



© Piabay Edition "Site"I have probably tried to find this magical answer many times, but the reaction is always different. Someone agrees with us, and someone argues that everything is wrong. We accept all points of view and value every opinion. experience Fair and important. Let's try to get into the controversy again.

Perhaps you should always ask yourself: what gives you your beauty? Why is it so important to lose weight to fifty kilograms, and not, say, to seventy-five? What if you are ninety feet tall and forty-four feet? Or, say, small growth, but you are far from thin and it is unlikely that you will be able to become it: the bone is not the same!



Here you look at yourself in the mirror and clearly understand that being a professional beauty from Instagram you most likely will not work. Data is not the same, and finances do not allow you to make even the simplest plastic, not to mention the usual means, which are also expensive.

Let’s try to answer the question: who of these professional beauties is really happy and why do they need to constantly attract attention? Maybe it's the same. instinctHe combed the feathers, and now there are fans in crowds. But we think it all comes down to an opportunity to make money.



However, it is possible that each of these ladies has a boyfriend who just wants power. He is so dominant: he forces his woman to be the one who fits his notions of beauty. It's such a hypertrophied desire to be even better than you are. Is there room for love here?

We strive to earn status, to be higher in our social environment. It's instinct. In the modern world, you can disobey it, but it still works. Men fall for women who fit into the canons. It's a general imperative of behavior. However, now more and more often you can notice ladies who just get high from the fact that they are not like anyone.



© Piabay There are a lot of stories. Strong marriages It started in the most unexpected places. One of our comrades fell in love with his future wife when she wandered through the hospital after anesthesia, elegantly dragging the system with an IV. She didn’t look like anyone on Instagram. To all the arguments, they say, she was wrinkled, ruffled, stunned, in the end, he answered only one thing: “Eyes, guys.” I saw a look.

Another after the birth gained a hundred kilograms of weight. Her normal weight was fifty-five. No, it may seem strange, but not only did her husband not leave her, but he claimed to love her even more because they were more than just two. However, this did not calm her down, and she returned to normal within a year. Said she did it for herself.



Men see when a woman is not pretending. They see when she loves herself. And here it is great to recall the words of one wise psychologist: “Imagine that in the forest where deer, hippos and elephants live, everyone suddenly decided that deer are the most beautiful. Will the elephants and hippos become ugly from this, and will they develop in this regard? inferiority? ?

Not so long ago we published a material about why lumps life costs more than thin ones. One message is that all skinny people look like someone. Such a massive loss of individuality. While “elephants” and “hippositories” allow themselves to live on a broad foot and not at all worry about appearance.



© Piabay And one more thing. A woman can always be what she wants. Today, she doesn’t feel in the mood to be liked by others; her eyes slide over her and don’t stop. And tomorrow, she has butterflies in her stomach, and then she takes every look at herself. Whatever it is. Whoever she is.

Yes, it can sometimes scare them (oh my God, what people will say about me!), and they again hide, review the tapes and stories and think, I wish I had a butt like a nut! But it's not about the nut, it's about how you feel when you look at yourself in the mirror. I need to get to know myself. The beauty that is inside you.



No need to be like someone - it is best to be like yourself. When you accept your naturalness, you understand your desires, you know what you want, then the complex about “self-loathing” falls off, like an unnecessary rudiment. That, perhaps, is all the secrets of existence.

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