A dream or a Comfortable career?

I am often approached with the question: what to choose – an unattractive work as a source of income or activity, allowing you to realize your talent.

People face difficulties that are lost when you have to choose between a job that pays, and not so best, but my favorite thing, does not promise any social and financial guarantees.

In fact, neither one nor the other don't want to choose "either – or", and want to get the magic Council, as to both, something like: "how to be healthy and keep a guide to disability and other benefits the patient."



THE JUG OR THE PIPE?

 

There is an old cartoon, "the Jug or the pipe?". Elegant version of the training video lesson to help you to avoid wasting time and money in search of miracles.

Brief description of the plot: the kids are going to pick berries. One girl was angry, she was lazy, she does not "see" berries.

Suddenly she found a mushroom, which encourages her to change a pipe instead of a jug. After playing on the flute, all berries become visible. The girl agrees. But! It turns out that the berries fully, but have nowhere to put it – we need a pitcher. She runs to the mushroom change, but on the way back, again can not find, did not see the berries. So she ran to the mushroom and asked to change.

Summary :life generous gifts will help you, but I have and their efforts to make.

 

INCORRECT BENCHMARKS

 

Favorite activities, dream job is not fun, where you just appeared and you have to applaud, and hang a wreath on the neck and carry the money. The reward is the final scene, this finish is the result. The implementation of the idea that talent is a process. It was during the creative process the person experiences great pleasure, happiness, this all unconsciously want, looking for, not the work itself, career.

If you do not give rest thoughts of "I this", "what do I get", "how soon", here we are talking about survival on the material plane. Of course, this is important. And since this is prevalent, try to work, to give this worthy of attention, as you would not calm down, no need to deceive yourself. This is not good, not bad. Just now, for you true is it. Need need to satisfy.

Does not exist highly regarded jobs with a secure future, but you can become a sought-after professional with a successful future. It just so happens that in most cases, more quick and stable financial success in the field service to which the world has made the request, where the demand already exists.

If you have ambition, passion to follow their personal goals, then of course sooner or later a favorite activity will be beneficial, you will pay for it. Only to realize that it takes time, you need to constantly improve their skills, competence, look for interested people, then it is possible that you will notice and appreciate, your services will use.

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TEST "THE WORK "LOVE" OR "CALCULATION»

 

Always focus on what you need, what you actually want. Because work, business, favorite activity, like money that motivate to work – it is a tool, not a goal. Then distribute your purpose on the principle of "global – local" and proceed in stages.

What is more important, more relevant at the moment: the solution of material problems, improving living conditions or self-development, creativity. With this and begin. Later try to cross to the other side, learn to do it consciously, themselves, and not under the pressure of circumstances, eventually you will succeed is to combine both creativity and material use.

If you are pressing material needs, life:

 

1. Never give up source of income, even if it is "normal", "unloved", "undesirable" job, especially if you are a responsible person who needs to pay the bills, feed the family, keep a roof over my head. If you have a lot of responsibilities, constraints, of course, is more "grounded", not to sulk and to consider different possibilities.

2. Mercenary work is a great opportunity to start, "transition" option, especially if you have no social and financial "rear" (parents, husband-wife) and you are confident. Select attractive field of activities, find the company, firm, team, where they could learn to build the right connections, gain experience, later you will be able to successfully use. If you select this option, then the most important thing is not to get stuck and to control the terms when it is time to go your own way, on their own.

3. In addition to covering the usual, household spending of wage work can accelerate the realization of your dreams, your project, which needs not only in theory but also in Finance, for example, for the creation of the website, for advertising, for the purchase of different tools for learning, skill acquisition and so on.

4. If you always and everywhere looking for guarantees – it is better not to do business, creativity. This requires 100% personal responsibility, courage. If you think that "you only need money (usually a large sum), and you already know what to do with them" — better do not go for the dream, it is only your imagination. Most likely, you don't even try, because it's not yours. Yet.

5. The world has changed radically. So, let's have no illusions — at present, there is no such thing as a "safe career" or "job guarantee".

 

If the first priority is self-development, realization of the talents – the dream:

 

1. Remember, in order to find yourself, you do not need to go somewhere far away, to fly to Mars or to have a million – your always with you. In your heart lie all the knowledge of the Universe, you only need to be able to find them and open them. If you came to this world, then you are able to Wake your uniqueness.

2. If you choose a favorite activity, developing your talents, if this is your "number 1", you'll do it no matter what, under any circumstances, no matter what your health or financial situation. Who really wants – always looking for opportunities who does not want – looks for excuses.

3. You are open to new friendships, experimentation and novelty. Your growth never ceases, you actively share your knowledge and interested in the experience of others.

4. Money or "what's in it for me" is not the deciding factor. You can easily and gladly invest their time and finances in their activities, in their professional growth. Over time, begin to notice how events are generated, develop as if by themselves: there are the right people, creative ideas are born, the circumstances are in your favor, and you just watch as it all develops successfully and enjoyed their first income.

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THE PRINCIPLE OF THE GOLDEN MEAN

 

For man is indeed a very important activity, communication, exchange of experience, self-development, it is very important to be interesting and popular, through this, his life is filled with meaning.

But people come up with a lot of illusions about a dream job. In reality everything is different. Even if the person he likes, he gets creative agony, stagnation, ordinary routine.

If you become uninteresting, boring, so what you do does not contribute to your development, time to change something, updated. And always will be. Stop, static is death, life is continuous movement and constant change. To be afraid of – so afraid to live.

So the answer to the question – what to choose comfortable career or the realization of the dream – choose "And". In real life you can and should combine both. And life will give you hints, moving it in the direction of their goals.

 

Also interesting: the dream Job: the hard truth about working for yourself

7 steps to the dream job

 

If you are accompanied by a financial recovery, even if it's minor, but stable, if you feel a surge of energy, and not her loss, you feel inspired and able to share it with others, attract people, then you are on the right track.published 

 

Author: Ilma Safronova

 

P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

Source: Elm Safronova