Life with a clean slate

No one in this world is immune from failure. Sometimes they are very serious, there is a feeling that everything has collapsed, life has lost all sense. However, even in the most serious situations do not despair.

It is necessary to take itself in hands, to assess the situation. Then forget about the losses and failures and start life with a clean slate.

Can I start again? Of course, the burden of the past not going anywhere. Some opportunities can be lost hopelessly, to realize some options of life is impossible. But this does not mean that you will not be able to find their way to happiness. This is the most important, what you should want, they should aspire to.Step 1. Analyze the situation

Evaluate their actions, identify their mistakes. Without blame ‒ it was what it was. Now you have a different problem, you need to throw away the past and start anew. Estimation of errors is needed only to ensure that you do not repeat them in the future.

Step 2. Define your strategic and tactical goalsIt is very important to know what you want, what you strive for and in what ways will achieve the desired result. If you at least roughly design your actions, you will be much easier to succeed.

Step 3. Nothing to regretIs the most difficult to accept the moment for what it is. You have gained experience, have become wiser. You are alive, in the end, and you have all the chances to succeed. It is very important to feel the excitement, the desire to fight, to go forward. Having a winning attitude, you are sure to achieve your goals.

Step 4. Don't feel sorry for yourselfSometimes a person feels at the bottom of life. Everything collapsed, he just has nothing to live for. No desires, hopes, aspirations. If you are in that condition, he urgently needed to get out. Just remember that your perception of the world and ourselves – is nothing more than a matter of adjusting. Moods tend to change, you know it. So don't complain to the whole world.

Step 5. Look at the worldyou can start right now to get up and do a little gymnastics. Then take a walk, better for nature. Breathe the fresh air. Enjoy the trees, the birds, the sky, everything that surrounds you. The world is so beautiful – this alone is worth to live!

Step 6. Keep a diaryIn this note the results of their work. Diary is very useful as it allows you to gather thoughts, make plans for the future. But in any case do not complain of it – it needs to be positive, setting up a victory. You bad – opened the diary, read. Charged him with cheerfulness and optimism.

Step 7. Find something for deseparate: man alive, yet he was interesting to live. Look for something that delivers satisfaction, inspires joy and optimism. Even if you spend all day on the unloved work (why don't you change it?), you must be knowing that in the evening or on the weekend you are waiting for the expected reward in the form of a favorite hobby.

Step 8. Have the mood to go to the endThan it would for you has not ended. Yes, you can play – be conscious of it. But more valuable will be your success. Don't give up, this is the most important. Let the world crumble, let you do nothing – do not back. For success always has to pay the price – persistence, persistence, desire to win. Even if you do not succeed in your final moments on this earth you can say to yourself that you still lived not in vain. You fought, sought, you are not sitting idly by. And that in itself is worthy of respect.published

 

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