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The main Vedic principle for our time
There is one of the most important Vedic principle that is given in the Scriptures. All the complaints that "this knowledge does not work" or "harm" — because of his non-compliance. Non-compliance through ignorance or reluctance — not so important.
The principle is simple and very deep. Place, time, circumstances. That is, we have a Vedic standard. And then — the place, time, circumstances. To be always correct in the modern world is wrong. Besides, it's still annoying. Strive for the ideal worth. But keep in mind — the place, time and circumstances.
It is in the Vedic times the wife was able men quote Scripture, expecting changes in their behavior. Then the men themselves knew these Scriptures, had followed his duty. It's not called inside protest. Just a reminder, the focus. And now? It is treated very badly, with hostility. How have the teachings from chicken eggs. Is it any way to heat up the atmosphere? Or should I start to monitor the implementation of its debt — and learn to communicate with her husband so that he felt no pressure on top?
The same with food. Is perfect to drink pure milk from domestic cows, which is well taken care of. Is it possible to find this in town? More often than not. And then what? Just drink the milk, what you will find. Even if it is pasteurized. Well, or not drink at all — but for me it's not a very good option.
If you came to visit, and there is nothing for vegetarians? This happens very rarely, usually still have some side dishes or a salad. Well, what if? I've seen this before. The counter is filled with dishes, all prepared with love? You can eat what's least harmful to you — for example, a cake with eggs or fish. At least a small piece. Because insulting a hospitable host — a serious thing. If you are ready to face the consequences, but also to hurt the one you love — can do "the face of evil vegan" and reject all the food that you are offering. But remember that there are only six types of love relationships: talk nice and make compliments, give and accept gifts to entertain others and make treats. Denying the food, you reject the love of the master. Ideally, of course, that your wishes are heard by the other party, as treats were offered exactly what you love. But we always start with yourself.
Or if you give a piece of cake in the evening. The horror! Cake! Overnight! You can refuse and offend those who love cake was baked and offered to you and you can try. Again, the time, place, circumstances. Two spoons nothing terrible will happen. And if you deny — can happen. Another case if you cake offers eat friend in the café to give up already, she is not offended. The exchange of love in the fellowship, and refreshments from the menu, you can choose any.
Whatever happens, we need to consider the time, place and circumstances. This is the reason. Not ready schemes that worked in the Golden age apply now. Because then the world was different, and the people around were different. And now — another TIME. Another PLACE. Other CIRCUMSTANCES.
To open her husband's heart needs to be properly — choosing the time and place. When he's in a good mood, well fed and ready to communicate. And many are happy that it is possible for it all to make — and it is only at the threshold — the wife opens her mouth.... A disaster happens. Hungry and tired husband all your requests will be answered in the negative. And still can rip on you all your negative emotions because you are not on time (again, the key point time!) came to hand and reason with the threshold began to terrorize.
If your husband does not like long dresses, use the same principle. The house and for him to wear naughty short platishke. Make sure that your long dresses was not the dress of the grandmother of eighty years. Ask what he likes. Be beautiful for him. Do not forget jewelry, accessories, wear bright and light dresses. And all the time remember the principle of place, time and circumstances.
Again, if you go camping — you can go a long skirt, and I know those who do so. But if this is unusual for you, you will not get any pleasure from a hike. Same thing about sports, skiing... there are all sorts of situations where it would be wise for you to put on pants!
To obey her husband. Important. Yes. And if the husband fallen? And orders his wife to stop praying? But if husband is cheating left and right and it requires obedience? And if the husband beats his wife? And if he doesn't want to give her the opportunity to become a mother? Just to be his victim — say, karma was not deserved? Or is it a place, time and circumstances?
To tolerate it is important. But sometimes patience becomes our weakness, our cowardice, and cowardice. Sometimes it is important to give back, sometimes you have to fight — remember the Bhagavad-Gita and the battle of Kurukshetra. When Arjuna did not want to fight, and Krishna explained to him that it is his duty. Duty to fight. Duty to kill people close to him. The duty to restore Dharma in the world. But to kill is also a violation of the commandments, right? But if we are talking about what is at stake are the lives of the subjects of the whole country, honor your wife and your own? Is it possible to sacrifice the lives of those who this well-being is threatened? Place, time, circumstances. And so in all. In our century, this principle becomes paramount.
And it may be that his wife will need to work for some time, and her husband to stay home. If such a time came. It may happen that you will need to stop hanging out with the parents to restore peace in his soul, although parents need to read and help. Maybe there are such circumstances that it will be necessary to give the child to kindergarten before. Or to stop breastfeeding early. Or to do a C-section mom. There are all sorts of situations, right? And each has its own characteristics. To consider, analyze, and apply knowledge intelligently.
Take any Vedic principle — if when applying it you are not using the main Time, place, circumstances — it can become evil. That is why earlier this was taught to not all. Not all knowledge was open. Because if a person with a weak mind, cannot determine the time, place and circumstances are right — he can hurt ourselves and others. Now the knowledge is accessible to all. Anyone who wants to. Even those who passed by — sometimes hook. And take immediately — you can pile up such!
When we forget this principle, we become fanatics. The religious fanatics, the "feminine" (which in itself is funny), "natural parenting" (although the fanaticism there is nothing natural). Let's learn main. Not only to master knowledge but to apply them at the right time in the right place, in the right circumstances. published
Author: Olga Valyaeva
Source: www.valyaeva.ru/glavnyj-vedicheskij-princip-dlya-nashego-vremeni/