1. Freed from the need always to prove his innocence.
Among us so many who even threatened rupture excellent relations, causing pain and creating stress, cannot accept and take a different point of view. It's not worth it.
2. Release the control.
Be ready to give necessary to constantly monitor everything that is happening to you – situations, events, people etc. Whether relatives, colleagues or strangers on the street – just allow them to be who they are.
3. Let go of the guilt.
Freed from the need to blame others for what you have or don't have, for what you feel or don't feel. Stop spraying your energy and take full responsibility for your life.
4. Stop negative conversation with yourself.
How many people harm themselves, just because they allow negative thoughts and emotions control their lives. Do not trust everything that says your logical, rational mind. You are better and capable of more than you think really.
5. Freed from the constant need to complain about many things — people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. No one can make you unhappy, no situation could disappoint. Not the situation makes you certain feelings.6. Refrain from criticism.
Stop criticizing people who are different from you, and events that do not correspond to your expectations. We are all different.
7. Freed from the need to impress others.
Stop pretending and be who you really are. Remove the mask, accept and love your Istinnaya Ya.
8. Cease to resist change.
Change is normal, they are necessary for us to move from point A to point B. Changes help to change our lives and the lives of others for the better.
9. Do not put in the labels.
Cease to hang labels on people and events that you don't know or just don't understand. And gradually open their minds to the new.
10. Let go of the past.
Know it's hard. Especially when the past like it more than the present and the future scares me a little. But, you need to accept the fact that the present is all you have.
11. Free yourself from fears.
Fear is just an illusion, it doesn't exist — you created it. It's all in your mind. Change your inner attitude — and the outside will fall into place.
12. Stop making excuses.
Expose excuses and send them into retirement. Most often we limit ourselves because of the many excuses.
13. Stop trying to live life by the expectations of others.
Too many people live a life that is not theirs, only to live. They live their lives in accordance with what others think is best for them, they do what is expected of them by their parents, friends, teachers, government and society. They ignore your inner voice, inner calling. They are so busy implementing the expectations of others that they lose control over their lives. They forget what brings them happiness, what they really want... and eventually they forget about themselves.
You have one life. It's happening right here and now. Live as you want, listen to your inner voice and don't let other people's opinions distract you from your path. published