12 of the belief that life becomes easier

12 of the belief that life becomes easier. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com

 

The life of modern man is quite comfortable and simple. Science and technological advances now provide us with high quality of comfort and entertainment. Why do we so often feel for its complexity and not on an empty place on experiencing these difficulties?

Parents teach us to hold the spoon and brush my teeth and teachers to solve problems and to write competently, specialists in all important spheres always heal, serve, and fix what is broken. Even tips on how to learn to be happy, more than enough. It is strange that while we always complain that life is very complicated.

In conditions when there is no need every day to protect the house from natural disasters, to fight the enemy, to suffer in the famine years from a lack of harvest, and afraid to die from a simple cold, we do find how to complicate your life. Just have to stop doing it.

1. The world is not the battlefield But to live means to constantly solve any problem in the struggle for the main prize. Children's games turn into a career and status, but to lose as well as win, anyone can. The difference is that children in the game once they're in it. Adults don't even allow myself to rest.

2. Everyone has their own way, Someone went abroad, someone buys another expensive car, a friend is getting married the son of neighbors has won the city contest, a colleague got a promotion, and my sister all decided to quit. Amazing how different and contradictory things, we may envy. From you — the same object of envy, so relax and live the way you want.

3. You can make mistakes Failures are possible, or rather, without them, no way. The question is, how much we attach importance to such things. Whatever was lost — we knew from the beginning that such a development is not excluded. So who do we want to cheat, or becoming upset and blaming yourself and others?

4. All people are different from people Expecting one or the other behaviour, we also argue quite naive. The injection comes at a time when new behaviors we take on your account. You can make false conclusions and to see the catch where it was not. Without such fantasies overall, most of the others — quite adequate in communication.

5. You behave like you do Minus time and energy for reflection, guilt and the showdown. You may be frightened, angry, late for work, not cleaning, not be in the spirit of no reason — so behave all real people, this does not mean that these problems should be solved.

6. Stress worthy of compensation They are numerous, it is no exaggeration to given more attention. Upset? Exhale and drink some herbal tea, overlooking the city. Passed the draft — do not deny yourself the time off, do not love to cook do it at your favorite TV series. And thoughts do not allow that it was unnecessary.





A simple life filled with simple emotions. Instead of having to wrestle with complex tasks, relax, as the children do. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com

7. You can think Why for a long time with the number of decisions that we take in the day, they still not enough? The answer is simple — because we don't dedicate each of them enough time, that leaves a feeling of incompleteness. A paradox, but the longer we ponder the choice, the less you have to redo it.

8. All the time Sowing the seeds, you must have patience to wait for emergence and harvest. We, instead, plowed field, many times or we spoil it with unnecessary fertilizers. The result is fatigue and no guarantees. Any process requires a time period and we can't change things.

9. All in all enough the World is much more than the needs of all its residents. You will find everything — a seat in transport, necessary thing at a discount, compliments from men, money for the journey. Optional push and get out of turn, it is important to understand what they want and safely continue the search.

10. You already know how to solve it If you were out of adolescence, it is almost always true. The fact that the lack of experience you won't even see the problem, and if you saw means ripe for action. In store consciousness is hanging a few ideas on the subject, just at first it may seem that all is lost.

11. Not everything requires your participation Almost one hundred percent, that will understand you. Surely you can not something serious to change. Why have you decided that you're the only hero? And whether you want heroism? As they say, modesty. Well makes life easy.

12. There is always something different Not better or worse, just a different variant of the arrangement of life circumstances. There is hardly anything more tedious than to cling and obsess. The choice is yours, but it is important to remember that he is always there. Instead of a movie — a walk in the Park, instead of my favorite perfume — a novelty, which may appeal more. Do not try to instantly fill the void of the familiar and familiar.published

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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