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1. NEVER LAUGH SON

For men ridicule women trauma, mockery mother is a very deep trauma. No matter, you will laugh over the fact that he accidentally put his pants on the left side over so that the curve of the painted dog, or on the fact that he confessed his love to the girl at the next Desk. Your smile will be remembered for a lifetime!

And that can never be forgiven...

 

2. ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS





At any age! And no "because a gladiolus" or "grow — know". Always — at all. Don't know the answer — say so. Then find out and respond. Embarrassed? The child's question made you blush?

Great — now you can perform another set. But this is YOUR complex. Do not embed it in the psyche of their child. Answer that question put you in a dead end and you need to gather your thoughts. Ask for an extension of time to answer. Children are usually easy to give it.

 

3. ASK THE SON OF THE COUNCIL IN DECISION-MAKING





You can not imagine how easily sometimes the baby will solve your "grown-up" issue over which you fought not one year! What should be our future apartment? Why am I always fighting with someone? What am I doing wrong? So the boy learns to be a man and make decisions, and you show him confidence and respect.

 

4. FORGET THE WORDS "I TOLD YOU SO!"



Even if I did, and he didn't listen — plug this song! Forever. You have no right to compete with your child in anything, and "I told you so" — this is a competition in which the mother is happy "win"... You were right? Rejoice in silence! He'll understand.

 

5. PRAISE!

Admire, without any "but" and "only here to correct". Just — "Cool!" Your child does everything cool! When he grows up — he will see that it was necessary to "correct".

 

6. KEEP ANY DREAM



"I want to be an underwater archaeologist" — cool! Buy books on the subject. And now "I want to be an artist". Too — cool! Buy books on the subject. And then "I want to be an engineer"... Scheme realized? Cool! Believe me, truly it will be determined only by the age of 20.

 

7. IF THE CHILD IS CRYING...

It means trouble. Insignificant for you (in the garden was given a horrible rice pudding is a favorite of buckwheat), but huge for him! For him, any trouble — a giant. Because the world of the child is still too small to mess embedded in his scales... And if there is trouble... you need to calm down! No matter how many years the child. You need to calm down! This DOGMA is the LAW of your future with him understanding: the child must not INCONSOLABLY crying. Never.

 

8. DO NOT READ HIM LECTURES! Also — NEVER

I hope comments are not needed.

 

9. YOU ARE ALWAYS ON HIS SIDE!





Not only in words. But in fact. You never assents to teachers who complain about him, never shout at him "for company" with other family members. On people — HE's ALWAYS right. YOUR SON IS ALWAYS RIGHT!

And then he can be not afraid to ask you about what porn or how to kiss a girl. Because it will know that you are not going to shout at him: "what's that for question?!" or "shame on you!" Because it will be to trust you. In other words, he will be sure about you. The dream of every mother... she can be reached.published

 

See also:

Emotional disabilities — victims family education

The child has not grown selfish, selfish need to be the mom

 

 

P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

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