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Many women have ambivalent feelings about money and financial success, because it raises themes related to emotional safety, survival, self-esteem and ability to. These themes are rooted in the initial patterns of security and confidence inherent in the relationship with the mother.

The lot of women in a Patriarchal society as being "below" men, by definition, involves the lack.

Mother – the most powerful man in the child's life and at the same time often the most helpless. It is powerful because the child needs it for survival, and helpless, as a society, to some extent devalues.

Many women chuvstvuyut guilty for your success because their mother was deprived. Some unconsciously sabotaging the indicators achieved their success, while others barely allow themselves to even dream of. There are those who feel envy from mothers to their achievements, which leads to unconscious hiding or sderzhivanie their success.

The merger of success and guilt starts at an early age, when we feel like our mothers are exhausted emotionally as we Mature.

The truth is that to make a mother feel insignificant or "below" —it was never in our power.

In our power to activate the pain that was already in it, which appeared long before we appeared in her life. But we, in our childhood innocence believed himself to be the source of her pain. A child believes the mother if under the influence of internal pain she blames him for their suffering.

Our selfless determination to remain "small" from devotion and love to our exhausted mothers based on a huge misconception.

Jealousy and feeling of defeat of our mothers can be isanity and reveal only at the level of the initial appearance of these injuries, due to their own childhood "wounds". These aspects have always been beyond us as daughters. The point is that it can only do herself. Our self-anything will not help. And that doesn't mean we don't sympathize with our mothers, but you need to show respect for their inner search as to what belongs only to them and nobody else.

Here is not and never was our fault. Only projection.

Feeling guilty for the jealousy of the mother, we unknowingly distributed what it's eating and suppresses. Because in your desire to feel guilt we suppress his own potential and will undoubtedly blame the next generation when it grows up.

The suppression itself, out of sympathy for the mother is not altruism, it's ignorance. This misconception of the child is left without attention. It is a form of unconscious self-torture.

To get rid of this is very simple and at the same time is very difficult: you Need to show and live their grief.





This grief is due to the fact that...

• as children we were powerless, and no matter how we tried, we couldn't save our mothers from their pain;
  
  
• our good intentions and great love for the mother could be invisible to her due to her own injury;
  
  
• the mother could be mistaken us for the cause of their pain and to be cruel to us;
  
  
• we have seen the suffering of their loved ones, and it was breaking our hearts;
  
  
• as they grow, we have seen how the mother suffered from missed opportunities, loneliness, isolation, or something else;
  
  
• maybe we've been blaming myself for the suffering of members of their family;
  
  
• we were not able to convince his mother that our success is not a stone in her garden.
  
  

 

When we allow ourselves to feel and to live the grief, accept the loss and move on, we have a deep love for yourself. This is the first and most important step in order to learn how to take care of themselves.

When maternal injury is mourned, it gives way to freedom, including financial freedom.

The truth is that we need to dare to beat your mother, if all of us this is. And not only in the external world, that is, in terms of our earnings or social implementation, but, much more importantly, we need to decide to surpass the level of consciousness of your mother and continue to develop, cultivating their awareness and understanding. This is maturity. Everything else is stagnation and the children's love to his injury.



We may not be able to share with the mother of his insights and realizations, and it is also necessary to mourn. You can find other conscious women who are this close, and to establish contact with them.

Top features of the mountain, we cross the line between struggle and relief.

In many families the struggle is closely connected with love. If you are not fighting for money or for something else, for some reason it was voprinimat as a betrayal of the family tradition. Top features of the mountain, we see that we can be financially secure, and it does not necessarily equate to loss of emotional connection. In fact, when we allow abundance to manifest in your life, the relationship can become stronger and sincere.

Contact with their inner abundance leads to outer abundance.

The true treasure inside. This close connection with your deep true nature. Healing your trauma and get access to its talent, which leads to the realization of its highest mission in life, we unite with your divine self. Connecting with inner source of abundance, we directly experience your true nature of fullness. You can make money as a neutral form of energy as a tool to accomplish their Supreme goal in life. The deeper we are connected to his inner wealth, the more we open the way for prosperity in the outside world.

I have seen many coaches women entrepreneurs, who viewed the lack of financial freedom at the level of the symptoms, as Western medicine is concerned with human health. In other words, you must go to the root of the problem, to heal the branch.

"Root" — the parent trauma and its healing automatically leads to healing "branches" in our lives (i.e. relationships, career, parental behaviours, etc.). Sustainable and long-term effect will be when healed very Foundation.

 

Stones, wrapped in felt: throw this stone back!

Open dialogue is the path to healing

 

Healing maternal trauma leads to the development of a sense of internal security that gives the opportunity to thrive as a woman leader.

Lamenting the fact that we are unable to give to his mother, we break the connection between success and loss. And then you can easily afford to have financial abundance, because it is not triggers cognitive dissonance. This no longer is opposed to the significant person in our lives.

Our primary affection eventually develops in us the inner mother and the inner connection with it, we have a strong Foundation – a sense of security that gives us the opportunity to explore the new feel of "the expendables" and to turn their dreams into reality.published

 

 

Author: Bethany Webster

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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