Psychologist Michael Labkovsky: These 10 Mistakes exactly break the life of your daughter!

mother and daughter relationship - one of the most serious in the life of every woman. The way a mother behaves with the girl in early childhood and later adulthood, affects its further destiny! < The role of parents in raising their children - a sore point for many people, and it is not surprising

. Psychologist Michael Labkovsky spoke about the major mistakes that most moms. Although there appears to be so do almost all of ...





Mistakes Parents
The lack of personal example
Instead of telling her daughter, "You must learn how to cook," to say: "Let shall weld together a delicious soup." And to do it! When she sees that mom enjoys some action, she also wants to learn it. condemns the attitude toward sex
If a child girl inspire condemning treatment for men , that "all of them one must", it grows with the feeling that all men - abusers and sex - disgusting activity <. Paradoxical contradictions
Like sex - messy, but every girl supposed to get married and have a baby, and it is desirable to do so up to 25 years. The result of such conflicting settings - fear of any relationship as such Overprotective
. If a child my mother too much takes care of the daughter grows flawed person without their own opinions, which can be easily manipulated around. The negative image of the father
If the daughter told her father, "goat", the girl feels guilty that this man was her dad. To cope with this feeling of guilt a woman can not the rest of his life trying to please others and to prove that it did not have a bad heredity. Physical violence
Corporal punishment humiliated the girls even more than boys. If girls are beaten, it grows with a penchant for the image of the victim and the aggressor chooses his partners. Nedohvalivanie
If the girl is not enough praise, it grows without the love of self and not be able to be a full partner in the relationship. The quarrels with the child
Quarrels in the presence of a child - a blow to his mental health. Do not forget that the child often takes over the responsibility for everything that happens in the family. Lack of communication
If a little girl talk, do not respond to her stupid questions, especially in adolescence, it loses contact with the parents and feels abandoned. Community - something that is never enough when it comes to raising children Incorrect installation to life
. We can not say the girl that her life is obliged to include some items: marriage, children, weight loss, some work ... We must inspire the child that he is entitled to do what he wants. Only in this way will grow confident and happy woman!

These errors in parenting - is exactly what I tell my friends ... It would be great if the training model, which all used to have changed for the better. Tell us in the comments, what thoughts about having you!

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