The main obstacle on the path to happiness - pride

People often live with the insult to life:

 - All is unfair, it's not so!

Men are not the ones that do not work, the city, the country, the behavior of the children, the parents, not the environment, etc ...
Not surprisingly, with such a frame of mind the person continues to receive the same lessons of fate, but each time they are becoming heavier.

But because people did not initially perceive the situation as a lesson, it remains unlearned, and the "victim" is even more fixed in his presentation about the injustice of the world, life, and the one who created all this and came up.

Gradually, a man transformed into a downtrodden and embittered creature appear mental and physical illness.


But since to live in such a state is not possible, a person begins to look for solutions, and thus runs into psychological literature, it falls on the psychological courses and training.
And there he hears the faithful, in general, the idea that "everyone is architect of his own fortune", just take responsibility for your life, accept yourself, love and learn techniques to influence their own destiny.
And now, for some time the former "victim" is working on himself, he shakes their self-esteem, learn a lot about energy and the management of the reality and really gets results, but this is the first time.
Further there is a monstrous replacement "victim" becomes "the creator", a man begins to think that he was now complete master of his life and can control a reality completely on your own.

So artful way pride keeps his life, and only intensifies. The man begins to notice the "imperfection" of other people, he rises above them, they seem to him "sleeping" and "narrow-minded».

He kept saying, "Well, how can you be so dark and negative !? Do not they realize that their life
Only in their hands that they do not do anything, just whining !? ».
Thus, a person falls into the trap of self-worth, and all his merits only classifies himself (and a little to those who gave him this knowledge), a kind of semi-god!

As a rule, life begins to turn his back to the man. Returning negative events, or are new, even more unpleasant.
And the man does not want to accept them, he protests: "I arbiter of fate, I learned the secrets of why everyone is not in my opinion»!? & Quot ;.

Only peace, alas, he did not hear, and the man is left alone in their greatness "misunderstood and unrecognized" It is the highest manifestation of pride! While in this state, man lives in complete disconnection with the world and with the forces that created this world and lead the man through life.
Gradually, "conceited creator" is immersed in the negative, disappointed in all magical techniques and the people to whom he went for help. But only humans and technique is not to blame the whole thing in a person's own state of mind. Trying something to learn from others, he did not become a "disciple" in life, and still sees all situations is not learned, but only an unfortunate mistake.
In order not to fall for the trap of arrogance, you need to constantly remind yourself that life is something inexplicable, a force that leads, supports and guides.
It must be remembered that the mistakes in this world, there are only our disagreement consider them lessons.

But getting good luck and success, it is not necessary to assign them to yourself, and it is better to share them with the world, just to say "thank you" for what he allowed to become a better, wiser, stronger. Also, of course, it is important to maintain a sense of gratitude to all my teachers, through which life bore you with the knowledge and wisdom.

And even in those moments when it seems that "now I can absolutely everything", it is important not to forget that it also gives you a feeling of peace and it does not belong to you.

Therefore it is always important to maintain a mentality of respect and gratitude to the forces that created this world and manage its events.

And it is necessary to find a way to communicate with these forces, to communicate with the world and the universe, because it is only through this source we can get love and happiness in your life!