SEMINAR MARINA TARGAKOVOY "crisis of love"

1. Chocolate marshmallow-phase or "chemistry of love»
When a man and woman meet and fall in love, they have the body produces certain hormones, called endorphins, which are painted the world in bright colors. At this point, the voice seems unparalleled, any nonsense - amazing. A man is in a state ... In this period should not take any decisions, ie. A. The effect of this will end once and everything will come to normal.

2. The next phase, which is sure to occur after the first, when the senses are pacified - a phase of satiety.

3. The third phase - an aversion
It is obligatory for any long-term relationship. At the beginning phase of revulsion quarrel as if you were given a magnifying glass, and you concentrate on the shortcomings that exist in the partner. The easiest and the worst out of this - a divorce. What is wrong? And the fact that you once again step into the chocolate zephyr-phase with the other partner. There are people who just rotate on the three phases. In the Vedas, these phases are considered to be below the level of civilized man, as in a real relationship you have not entered.

4. The next phase - is patience
Quarrels between the partners are continuing, but they are not as fatal as the nature of the prior period, as both know that when the quarrel is over, relationships will be restored again. If we make efforts towards the development of patience, we rewarded the development of the mind. That is the law of nature. So, in this phase we are given reason.

5. The fifth phase - the phase of the debt, or respect
Before this love was not. I'm beginning to think not what he owes me, and what I told him to be. Focusing on their responsibilities develops us.

6. Sixth phase - friendship.
Friendship - is a serious preparation for love.

7. The seventh phase - love.
Love - it's not a cheap thing. To it go forever. Love trained through a variety of life situations, and, in the long-term, intimate relationships. Love - it's not something that suddenly falls to us on the head, for the love we zreem, abandoning selfishness within himself ...