After reading these facts, you will be able to deeply understand how fundamental differences cause the behavior of the sexes, and may become tolerant to the "shortcomings" (or rather, especially) its halves.
1. Women hear better half (2, 3 times) than men. Women hear the man screaming (and think that he is angry) while men have a feeling that he says in a confidential manner, even with the participation of some shade.
2. A woman hears the speaker using the two hemispheres (left and right), while the man - predominantly with the left hemisphere, involving verbal, logical thinking, and therefore critically. Women - closer ties between the two hemispheres of the brain that allows us to solve several problems at once, and it seems to them a man emotive, subjective conscious through their desire and anxiety, missed through the ethical and social values. They hear what the man says, but even more sense, as it does, feeling tone of the male voice, the rhythm of his breathing, his alleged feelings.
3. The left hemisphere of the brain is more developed in women, and the right (the so-called emotional) - men. This contradicts the fact that ordinary people are thinking (and sometimes even therapists). Hence, women are more involved in verbal communication and participation, while men are more prepared for action and competition.
4. is already in kindergarten girls talk 4 times more than boys. The boys are noisy and fight 10 times more often than girls (an average of 5 minutes versus 30 seconds).
The 9-year-old girls outperform boys in development for 18 months. Adult women spend an average of 20 minutes per call, the men - and only 6 minutes to transfer the necessary or urgent information.
5. The woman should share their thoughts, feelings, emotions, while the man restrains and controls emotions, trying to find a solution. My husband interrupted his wife to propose a solution, and the wife of a feeling that he did not listen.
6. In fact, men are more emotional than women, but they are less express their emotions, and this should not be neglected in conjugal life.
7. For a woman more important time for this is in the left hemisphere. The man is more important than space, and then plays an important role the right hemisphere. The advantage of men when tested in volumetric spatial action - is enormous, since childhood.
Woman finds its way on specific markers - surpassing man in remembering or identifying specific objects. Man operates on abstract concepts - he is able to improvise, "a shortcut to get to your car or the hotel».
8. It is believed that women are more sensitive, but not emotional. She has a very well developed hearing, it is why are important to her gentle words, tone of voice, music, and so on. N. A more developed her tactile sensitivity - on the skin of a woman is 10 times more than that of men, receptors sensitive touch. In addition, oxytocin and prolactin (hormones of attachment and affection) increase her need to touch and caress.
9. With regard to the view that in men it is more developed and more erotic * ized - hence their interest and the WHO * uzhdenie caused by clothing, makeup, jewelry, naked * one has * ograficheskimi magazines. However, women are better developed visual memory (on the face, the order of the objects, the shape of objects, and so on. D.).
10. The fundamental differences between men and women explained by natural selection over a million years of evolution of the human species. Man adapted to hunting over large areas and distances (and to struggle and war between tribes). Usually he had to keep silent pursuit of prey, sometimes within a few days and then find their way back to his cave (orientation). In ancient times, the verbal exchange was very small, it is estimated that the prehistoric man in my life met no more than 150 people. During the same time period a woman's brain has adapted to fulfill its basic purpose - raising children that require verbal communication. Accordingly, the biologically programmed to compete with a man, a woman - to cooperate.
11. These differences are laid during the very first weeks of fetal life, and they are very slightly affected in the future education and culture. Today believe that our personality is determined and defined by a third heredity, one-third - of intrauterine life. Personality is determined by a third, and acquired knowledge on that affect the cultural environment, education, training, occasional circumstances.
12. When the ball is on the ground, the boys beat him on foot, and the girls take up and pressed against his chest. It occurs spontaneously and is directly related to hormones.
Testosterone - the hormone of desire, behold * sualnosti and aggression. It could be called the hormone of conquest (military or se * sualnogo). The optimum concentration of testosterone:
developing muscle strength (40% muscles for men; 23% - a woman); determines the speed of reactions and incontinence (92% of drivers honking in traffic "jams" and is primarily , men); contributes to the formation of aggression, competition, domination (the dominant male maintains the quality of the form); develops endurance, perseverance; promotes healing of wounds, an increase in baldness, vigilance, the development of right-sided body, precision movements and orientation. 12. Estrogen, in turn, contribute to the development of dexterity, separate finger movement, left-sided body, and the formation of about 15% body fat for men and 25% - women, necessary for the protection and feeding a baby.
Estrogens also affect the woman's ear, it distinguishes between a greater range of sounds, it is better than a man (6 times), and recognizes the sound of music and singing better. The woman remembers well the names of colors, it is also well-developed auditory and visual memory. Women are attracted to the dominant male, strong, able to protect, experienced and socially recognized that, as a rule, are older.
13. The woman said without thinking; a man acts without thinking.
14. A woman unhappy in personal relationships, have problems at work; man, unhappy at work has a problem with women.
15. women need intimacy to assess the lo * sualnost, a man needs a lo * sualnosti in order to assess the closeness.