Anything you say can be used against you. Keep your mouth shut!

How difficult is the urge to blurt out something extra! But it is the ability to distinguish the mature personality of the unconscious. After all, everything that you say, affects the life you want it or not. Seven times measure - cut once, this statement perfectly demonstrates how a balanced approach is necessary to his own words. Better to remain silent and well ponder the answer, than under the influence of emotions to express the fact that the tip of your tongue. This is especially true for women generally, the conversation which does not cost anything ... find a list of information that is not particularly better articulate to others. For your own good!

1. Charity
Good deeds - an excellent practice, but do not talk about them at every corner. Welcome loses its charm when about him scream, and sometimes even disgusted ... Do you want to make the world better - do it in silence. The best way to bring something to the people - to demonstrate their behavior something beautiful and not talk about it.

2. Ascetic
Observe the fast? You sit on a diet ?? Think about it, why should others know these details. Any deed is worthless if it is to advertise. Deliver loved ones from having to express excitement about your resistance, because admiration, alas, be insincere ...

3. Heroism
Do you want to be a hero - be. Unselfishly help someone, take away the garbage left by neighbors, become a part of. And forget about it. You will be rewarded for good deeds, if you can resist the temptation to tell them everything.





4. Spiritual knowledge
You've become a believer? Practicing meditation? Fine, but that's no reason to agitate others to do the same. By sharing their spiritual practice, you can fight off the desire to do something similar in humans forever! Remember that everyone - his way, and to share your views there is no obligation.

5. Morality
Anyone who commits acts of violence every day. Anyone who flaunts its morality - just a hypocrite. Admit it himself, that you have many shortcomings and stop to look better than you really are. It's so stupid looks!

6. Family life
Conflicts happen in any family. But it is better to keep quiet about it, because quarrel dies down, and the opinion of you and your loved ones will change. The less you talk about your family affairs, the more likely it is that your personal life is to emerge successfully.

7. Food
Treating other people observe a silent mind. Do not tell that from what foods and how food is prepared, it does not do you honor. A good taste of the food itself and the guest is able to evaluate if they wish - will you have a recipe, but to flaunt their culinary talents are not worth it. Separately, about vegetarians: Be silent. How sad that such a wonderful practice looks strange and stupid in the eyes of other people because of those who are too much talking about it.

8. Plans for the Future
Do not tell anyone, talking about their plans. They can change, in the end, you can die at any moment. Nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. Planning an event, act deliberately, but nobody talk about his hopes for the future.





9. Children
If you think that everyone else is very interesting to learn about the success of your child at school, you are deeply mistaken. Moms who endlessly load the public with information about the child - miserable. Apparently, they have nothing else to say! You do not want to think of you as well?

Of course, there are people with whom you can share your most cherished - fears, experiences, doubts and unexpected joy ... But these people - unity! Symptom human culture - the ability to separate the superficial acquaintances from very close friends. Someone who knows you is bad, can do very wrong conclusions from the information provided by you!

Be focused and calm, speak less and listen more. It will make you invincible! Speak to friends this obvious truth.

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