The whole truth about an independent woman. Good girls may not like it!

It seemed if you at least once that all the lonely beauty in Hollywood films in general, the same type? Immediately recollected all the same story: insecure heroine always gets into dangerous situations and can not solve their problems. Or, her heart broken and suffering, she is waiting for HIM - Prince, which will change the life in a happy way. And then a miracle, out of nowhere appears a strong man and takes everything in his strong hands. Of course, she quickly comes to life starting again feel all the joy of life. Familiar, is not it? And now imagine a picture with the self-confident lady who runs their own fire and water, and copper pipes without the need of any public heroes ... I agree, we do not accepted.

In our society, women, perhaps, is not easy. On the one hand, you are taught to be independent and disruptive, but immediately, showing their independence, become the subject of anger. Like it or not, but really a lot of people mistakenly perceive this phenomenon as "an independent woman." And the cause is fear. We often hate what is really afraid. It should answer the question: "So why do many frightened woman, full of the spirit of independence?»

Because she does not ask for permission.
For the independent woman of the word "Yes, please" do not mean anything. She knows what she wants, and dare to play by their rules. Remember the girl from the class that does not listen to the advice of teachers, but coped best. It is, of course, is independent and today.

Because she is not afraid to have their point of view.
An independent woman and thinks independently. It is subject to the most powerful of all freedoms - the freedom of the mind. She is not afraid to say what he thinks. And why break your head ethical issues? If you have an opinion, Ruby truth-mother!

because it does not need foreign recognition.
As they say: «The most frightening person on earth - a woman who does not need the recognition of others». I> Confidence independent woman is not based on someone else's opinion, and lies in a more powerful source: a. If your self-esteem is not changed from external compliments and praise, you're terrible people.

Because she is not afraid to bask in the glory.
An independent woman is not hiding behind the guise of "false modesty". Pretend that you are dissatisfied with himself and sheepishly accept praise? It would be a sin!

Because it is bullying, but not frightened.
Not afraid of an independent woman unwritten laws of the hierarchy: they are not life threatening. Do you want to be as fearless? Then there is no word, and deed to achieve its goal. Forget the fictional ranks, just do themselves and for themselves. You have no idea, because you will be afraid of those who are used to bend, to earn the respect of others!

Because she did not need anyone. And that scares the masses, because it can control them, while a society accustomed to influence the fate of women.
Here, for example, each of the fair sex should be the other half. Just want to ask the independent woman: whether it needs a loved one? No, she does not need it - she loves it. And this is the pure love of the earth.

Because she did not have someone to like.
Intelligent, sincere independent woman realizes that not everyone likes, but she did not care. Of course, criticism and hatred of others sometimes afflict a person. No stone is it! Fortunately, understanding that just need to be yourself, and makes such a strong independent woman.



In general, all independent people are not looking for easy ways. Inextinguishable impartiality, freedom of expression makes them pioneers and heroes of the time, or in our case characters. So do not look askance at so confident women - they have a lot to learn! I think, and your friends will be interested in the lessons of independent behavior. Do not forget to share!

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