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FIVE RULES harmonious family
Who does not happen a bad mood? Who can be 24 hours a perfect husband? At the same time, all strive to create a harmonious relationship, a warm family atmosphere and mutual love. And no one wants to destroy what was built for so long, just because someone is not like something or someone in a bad mood.
Who does not happen a bad mood? Who can be 24 hours a perfect husband? At the same time, all strive to create a harmonious relationship, that your harmonious family had a warm family atmosphere and mutual love. And no one wants to destroy what was built for so long, just because someone is not like something or someone in a bad mood.
Therefore, if you want to keep harmony in the family, these five rules will help you to do this at any "weather" in your mood and status.
Your tone plays an important role in communicating with others. Remember how you yourself were pleased to fulfill someone else's orders simply because they sounded friendly tone. What would you do if you said it in the tone of command? That's right, you would not like it. So in the family circle: try to express their demands and requests benevolent tone, so that the person you wanted to, at least, to listen and not to defend himself. Be kind to the interlocutor, and he'll listen. But it is important to remember that if you are in the shower still issue orders, then your words will not lead to the actions of another person. Be honest not only in words and appearance, but also the soul.
If you do not like something, tell your loved one in comic form. How often do people express their hostility to the discontent, criticism and cries. But when such methods have helped in achieving the objectives? Therefore, express our sympathy and antipathy to anything in the good-natured and humorous forms. For example, you want your wife often tidied up the apartment. Then, every time she made a desired event, thank her, "Honey, what you have brought the beauty! Now a pleasure to return to a house where the landlady lives, such as you! ". Cheer your spouse (husband) at the time when he is doing something that you really like and you want to happen so much more often. If you do not like something, just talk about it to your partner, but good-naturedly. For example, thank him (her) for the effort, but to give an opinion on the matter. And when you are annoying flickering before the eyes, blow off steam, and offer to buy the flash. Remember that your words have to be loving and warm, but not pronounced like another decree - a sign of a harmonious family.
Talk to your loved ones that you make happy. Do not expect them to psychic abilities that will read your thoughts. Tell us about your own preferences to the man knew what he (she) can bring happiness to you.
Use in an address to the partner of the word "favorite" and "expensive". Shows his attitude to the partner through tender words.
Learn how to give. Paradoxically, but the more you give people, the more you get back. This happens in cases when you are doing something with no hidden thoughts: "Yeah, now I'll do it, and then he will owe me!". If you make any actions selflessly, then the people around you are grateful and willing to help you. Bring your favorite love, affection, respect and warmth, then they will tell you the same. This is the fundamental law of the universe that does not require proof.
Such are the lungs, but at the same time very important rules to help you keep a harmonious relationship in the family, where will reign love and mutual respect. If you aspire to is to it, then start to act, and after a few months your results will be apparent not only you and your loved one, but also the people around you.
Who does not happen a bad mood? Who can be 24 hours a perfect husband? At the same time, all strive to create a harmonious relationship, that your harmonious family had a warm family atmosphere and mutual love. And no one wants to destroy what was built for so long, just because someone is not like something or someone in a bad mood.
Therefore, if you want to keep harmony in the family, these five rules will help you to do this at any "weather" in your mood and status.
Your tone plays an important role in communicating with others. Remember how you yourself were pleased to fulfill someone else's orders simply because they sounded friendly tone. What would you do if you said it in the tone of command? That's right, you would not like it. So in the family circle: try to express their demands and requests benevolent tone, so that the person you wanted to, at least, to listen and not to defend himself. Be kind to the interlocutor, and he'll listen. But it is important to remember that if you are in the shower still issue orders, then your words will not lead to the actions of another person. Be honest not only in words and appearance, but also the soul.
If you do not like something, tell your loved one in comic form. How often do people express their hostility to the discontent, criticism and cries. But when such methods have helped in achieving the objectives? Therefore, express our sympathy and antipathy to anything in the good-natured and humorous forms. For example, you want your wife often tidied up the apartment. Then, every time she made a desired event, thank her, "Honey, what you have brought the beauty! Now a pleasure to return to a house where the landlady lives, such as you! ". Cheer your spouse (husband) at the time when he is doing something that you really like and you want to happen so much more often. If you do not like something, just talk about it to your partner, but good-naturedly. For example, thank him (her) for the effort, but to give an opinion on the matter. And when you are annoying flickering before the eyes, blow off steam, and offer to buy the flash. Remember that your words have to be loving and warm, but not pronounced like another decree - a sign of a harmonious family.
Talk to your loved ones that you make happy. Do not expect them to psychic abilities that will read your thoughts. Tell us about your own preferences to the man knew what he (she) can bring happiness to you.
Use in an address to the partner of the word "favorite" and "expensive". Shows his attitude to the partner through tender words.
Learn how to give. Paradoxically, but the more you give people, the more you get back. This happens in cases when you are doing something with no hidden thoughts: "Yeah, now I'll do it, and then he will owe me!". If you make any actions selflessly, then the people around you are grateful and willing to help you. Bring your favorite love, affection, respect and warmth, then they will tell you the same. This is the fundamental law of the universe that does not require proof.
Such are the lungs, but at the same time very important rules to help you keep a harmonious relationship in the family, where will reign love and mutual respect. If you aspire to is to it, then start to act, and after a few months your results will be apparent not only you and your loved one, but also the people around you.
