9 Tips happy life of Mark Twain

1. Live in harmony with them.

"A man can not be satisfied with life if he is dissatisfied»

If you are unhappy with themselves, their behavior and actions, it is likely, most of the time you will suffer from a feeling of general discomfort. On the other hand, if you are happy with yourself, you will be quiet and you'll have inner freedom to do what you really want to do. If you do not have inner freedom, then you will have trouble with personal growth. You can even choose the correct methods for such growth, but you'll feel the internal resistance. Therefore, you will not achieve the goal.

You have to give yourself approval to allow myself to be who you really want to be. Do not look for approval from others. Seek approval from himself. Overcome the inner barrier and do not give yourself the opportunity to self-harm. This is no easy task, and to deal with it, it may take time.

2. You may limit themselves mentally.

"Age - this is something that exists in our brain. If you do not think about it, it does not exist »

Thus, what we have to limit myself, in most cases, there is only in our mind. For example, we can think that the people around us annoying that the growth we have not as it should, or that we have the wrong age or that we have very little hair on his head. But there is only when we consider that it exists. Because, in this case, you start to feel uncomfortable and worried about what people think about you. And people feel bad and can react to it.

On the other hand, if you will not care, then the people around you, too, will be all the same. It's safe to say that there is almost no situations where too late to start doing something that you really want to start doing.

3. Relax and have fun.

"Humor - is the greatest gift given to mankind»

"Nothing can resist the onslaught of laughter»

Humor and laughter - a striking weapon. They can draw any serious situation into something, something to laugh at. They always and everywhere can improve your mood. When the mood becomes better, it is usually easier to get to work and, because in this case the brain is not overwhelmed bad emotion. When you calm down, it becomes easier to find a solution and implement it.

4. Fold the anger.

"Anger - this acid, which is more harmful to the vessel in which it is stored than to those on whom it is poured»

Anger in most cases is meaningless. It may be the reason why the situation gets out of control. For his own good need to understand that anger detrimental effect on the person who is angry, and not on someone to get angry. So even if you are constantly angry with someone, try to understand what these are you most hurting yourself. A person may not even suspect about overwhelmed by your feelings. Therefore, good advice on how to make your life more enjoyable, will either talk to the person and thus resolve the conflict, or as soon as possible discard their anger.

5. Do not assume that you all have everything.

"I do not proclaim to everyone around that world in your debt. World owe you nothing. He was up to you »

Very often a child your parents give you a lot of things. When you're growing up, you may be something like the feeling that someone you something must. You can assume that the world is simply obliged to give you what you want or what he dolgu.Iz in front of you because of this you will often get angry and upset. Because the world can not give you all the features you expect from it. On the other hand, such a situation can help. You begin to realize that you can make their own life and in your power to work on those things which you want to work. You are no longer a child who is waiting for the parents or the world will present him what he wants.

6. If you are doing something on their own, be prepared that you will not understand.

"A person who has new ideas will be considered eccentric, as long as his ideas will not be a success»

I think this is largely applicable to self-improvement. If you start to change or do something wrong, you have done it before, people may react differently. Some people will like it. Someone will be all the same. Someone will be puzzled or he will not like it and he will begin to obstruct. Basically, how people react, it is not what you are, but what are these people. This is how they feel in words and judgments they make. I think they probably will not react as bad as you can imagine it to represent. Or at least, they will sooner or later leave you alone and will be engaged in their own affairs. Thus, what may say or think others may be only by your imagination and the obstacles that you have built in his brain and that keeps you from making productive.

7. accents the way you want it.

"Out of my head all the problems. Close the ears, run from thinking about problems or dispose of them in all possible ways »

Something that you pay the utmost attention, largely determines what will happen. You can get bogged down in their problems and create a self-image of the sufferer and the victim. Or you can make the focus on something positive that you learned from a particular situation or concentrate on anything else. You can inadvertently focus on problems instead redirect your thoughts to something more useful. But you can also learn how to control it, what you think, and every day you will be easier and easier to redirect your thoughts.

8. Do not think too much about how to feel good.

"The best way to perk yourself - is to try to cheer somebody else»

Perhaps in some degree this advice contradicts common sense. The best way to feel good - it's to make someone else feel good or something to help him. So you move upward spiral of positive and share with others something valuable. You help someone and so both you and the person you have helped, feel good. Closest person to whom you have helped, too, then stretch out a helping hand, because people prefer not to be in debt. Thus, helping each other, both of you will feel good.

Such positive feelings are transmitted to other people, and therefore you will again do good, inspired by means of which you had friends. And thus a positive spiral will grow and continue.

9. Do what you want to do.

"20 years from now you will be more regret that you did not do than what did. Therefore, lift the anchor and swim away from the safe harbor. Catch a tailwind in their sails. Use. Dream. Make discoveries »

Excellent quote! I really have nothing to add to it. Maybe only advise to write it and hang it on the refrigerator or on the bathroom door, to always remember that actually have to do with my life.